OK I'll try to make this short. I dated my ex for a short time then HE ended it. He's 26, I'm 21. He has lots of experience with dating, while he was my first kiss & first bf. Our relationship was so innocent, cuddling in his room, holding hands, kissing. We never had sex cuz he knew I wanna save sex for marriage. He would still say hi to me on msn even though HE ended it. It has been over for more than ONE YEAR. 2 months ago, he called me, after one yr. & wanted to make plans together so we could see a movie sometime. We set a date, he picked me up & after the movie he took me home. IOn the drive home, when I asked him why he wanted to see me, he said that he wants to "see me every once in awhile". I felt disrespected so when I got home I said "bye forever" to him on msn. Then I felt bad so a week later I said sorry to him on msn. Since then I have said hi to him 2 on msn. Then a few days ago he said hi to me on msn & he wanted to know what I had been up to.
2007-03-13 19:35:38 · 4 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel like he may wanna hang out again? But why doe she wanna hangout after one yr? Some say he is using me as a “backup”, what does that really mean & why would he do that? If a guy keeps u as a backup does t mean he still has feelings for u? or is he just playing with me? As a backup, I mean that if he doesn't find a girl to marry or date will i always be his second choice?
2007-03-13 19:36:04 · update #1
Seriously I think he has wrong intentions. For a guy to say he wants to hang out once in awhile is a big red flag, especially if you felt disrespected than he must have said it in a negative way. He ended the relationship, and it sounds as though you should end the starting of this possible relationship.
2007-03-13 19:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs♥xoC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey this question i just answered it 5mins ago but it was in a different way,that doesnt change anything coz its still the same situation,u dont sound like a 21
so as i said b4 sex is the issue here the guy wants to get laid just give him and he is yours forever
if not then tell him to go and look for someone who will give
him coz u stingy
by the way thanx for the 2points xtra
2007-03-14 02:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by broderm2k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look honey, you've posted this question like 40 times...he probably wants to sleep with you...he is a guy after all...and if you're not up for it then just leave it be.
2007-03-14 02:38:38 · answer #3 · answered by evilim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your uncomfortable, be direct. stop confusing him.
2007-03-14 02:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by mighty_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋