Why do guys tell you what they think you want to hear no matter how old ya'll are?

Question

I mean, HELLO?!?!?!?! There comes a time in life were it's not worth it. Just tell the damn truth. If you just want to get laid, say you just want to get laid. Saying you want a relationship and getting into the other's soul is a waste of time and waste of pain to the other person at your own risk when you are 25 and above, right?? Why do guys continue with the high school behaviour when it's sooooooooooooooooooo not worth the time and pain inflicted onto others,and possibly the other's child????????????????????????????????????

Answer 1

If the guy told the girl, he just want to get laid, he won't get laid. :) What would a girl do if a guys say: Hey, you're pretty, let's sleep together, but let's not get attached ok. He'll be lucky if the girl didn't slap him.
Often the truth is ugly and it hurts. Some people prefer to play safe and will only say things they think others want to hear.
Besides, there are some people who genuinely want a relationship, but after they sleep together figure out they're not compatible. Sucks. But truth does hurt. Figuring out which guy is sincere and which just lie to get what they want is an art every girl should master. Pain is the side effect you need to risk getting if you want to find a great guy.