How do you deal with guys who have commitments issues? I have a friend who I like and am attracted to him as well. I think he's also physically attracted to me and probably likes me as well. But the thing is I THINK he has commitment issues. I've seen him jump around from one girl to another and cannot really stick to one. What should I? Should I hook up with him? How do I get into him involved in a relationship with me? How should I act so he won't run away after our night together?
Please give me some advice how to deal with guys who have commitment issues.
2007-03-13 19:30:53 · 5 answers · asked by Crazy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't change people.
He will have commitment issues for as long as you know him. Forget about him. You'll just get yourself hurt if not.
2007-03-13 19:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by D L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I feel that you need to respect people and not just guys for commitment issues. Maybe they have gone through a bad experience of some sort and afraid to commit like parents having divorce, friends and colleagues etc. It is happening all over the world. So I think you need to know him as a friend first before you continue to advance as lovers. Take a step at a time and soon you will know the answer. Good luck.
2007-03-13 19:36:52 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean, as a man I think its kind of immature of them being like that. My guess is that maybe they got some former gf that was really needy and clingy and took things too fast with them so they now worry if every girlfriend will act in the same manner.
2016-03-28 22:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you can't fix em. Types like him wanna play around and experience lots and many different types of girls before they get married. If you do end up dating him, you will likely just be another girl on his list. Save yourself the heartche and just be frends with him, not more.
2007-03-13 19:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by Hottie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't lure a guy into a relationship....if he's not the commitment type then you can't change him. So you either bang him and enjoy it for what it is, or don't.
2007-03-13 19:34:10 · answer #5 · answered by evilim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋