is it natural for my boyfriend to accuse me of checking out others guys when they walk buy... even if it's just something as simple as me looking up when they walk by and then saying that i feel bad for what they're wearing (boys went to a privte school near where we were). Is it normal.. and is it ok?
2007-03-13 19:26:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's normal to look, but I can see why your bf would get mad if its an on-going thing, especially when you are together...figure out what he means to you and decide whether something as trivial as looking at other guys is worth it to you.
2007-03-13 19:33:25 · answer #1 · answered by Raj B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would the tone in his voice be and how often is he accusing you?Sounds like to me he's a bit on the jealous side ..not to mention insecure.Too be honest if he's mentioning it more than you think he should and it is bothering you then YES there will be a problem.Been there and it does not change.If anything it does get worse. What happens when he starts to think you cheat on him ? Jealousy and insecurity should play no role in a positive and equal relationship.
2007-03-14 02:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship now and save yourself alot of trouble. Nothing worse than a jealous relationship. If both of you can't appreciate the world around you and still be committed to each other, then it's not working.
When you're in an art museum, you can appreciate the art - but you never expect to take it home.
2007-03-14 02:31:16 · answer #3 · answered by wigginsray 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does the same thing with girls. its all innocent! maybe he has self esteem issues and thinks maybe ur thinking along the lines of "oh he looks better than (your boyfriend)". just reassure him that he has nothing to worry about. dont comment on other guys clothes, cuz ur bf will "KNOW" that u are checking that guy out. guys have a double standard..thats just how it goes.
2007-03-14 02:35:07 · answer #4 · answered by annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he is really into you and that he just gets jealous when he thinks you are looking at someone else, it's normal
2007-03-14 02:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is normal, really? Offhand, he sounds like the jealous type.
2007-03-14 02:29:40 · answer #6 · answered by evilim 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i wouldn't say it's okay, but i wouldn't say it's bad either. it just means he's concerned about you looking at other guys, which could lead to the 2 of you breaking up.. he cares about ya.
2007-03-14 02:31:17 · answer #7 · answered by doofuspie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal, human and ok - you're not dead, you have eyes.... every time my hubby asks me i honestly say that i was debating whether or not he could wear what they were wearing, but that's me....
2007-03-14 02:30:54 · answer #8 · answered by amymrgrt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is jealous and insecure
most woman work hard to get their men into this state you get it free ....
2007-03-14 02:30:16 · answer #9 · answered by q6656303 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes it is ok, why not, you are dating, you are not dead
:)
2007-03-14 02:30:33 · answer #10 · answered by happyday to you 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋