i like this guy,he told me he likes me & wants to take it slow since we kindaa just met.we have like everything in common which is great,but one thing i hate he doesnt call me,he always wants me to call him to hangout.but it seems like he isnt agressive enough or has the confidence to call,he told me bestfriend he doesnt make the first moves.but am i being to easy if i call to hangout,like i dont want to be clingy???
2007-03-13 19:02:53 · 10 answers · asked by emeralcoastsurfgirl101 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am a guy and I'm telling ya, forget this jerk. Shy or not if he cannot meet you half way he isn't worth your time. He's treating you like a puppy on a string that does as it's told.
He's not into you.
He's into the -idea- of you.
Not one in the same. Kick him to the curb if he can't be a man and meet you half way.
2007-03-13 19:09:47 · answer #1 · answered by Jazz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok chances are if you stop calling and he likes you enough he should call you back. Just say call me and if he doesn't you have to ask if this guy is so incapable of following through with the little things how is he going to do with the big ones in a relationship. Clingy is if you call call call. Sure call him once if he doesn't call you back though over and over again well you really desserve better than that.
2007-03-14 02:09:12 · answer #2 · answered by Cloe C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he can't make an effort to call you then he's not worth wasting time on. tell him the phone works both ways and that you are not going to keep being the one making the calls. he's doesn't act like he wants to be with you.
2007-03-14 02:08:07 · answer #3 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call, hangout once, and after that see what happens. there is nothing worse then a guy with no balls. If he doesn't step up to the plate at one point...move on, your being too easy on him. He has to work for it.
2007-03-14 02:08:02 · answer #4 · answered by 258Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why doesn't he make the first move....because he's arrogant or because he's shy? if it's important to you that he calls, maybe that is something he needs to work on and you can let him know that...."i seem to be the one who makes the phone calls to go out. it would be nice if you could try as well."
2007-03-14 02:09:10 · answer #5 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is strange, men are supposed to be agressive, what will happen when you need him to be aggressive?
Find someone else.
2007-03-14 02:07:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he does not reciprocate, you can forget about this friendship. Try to make new friends and get to know more people.
2007-03-14 02:05:47 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no hon, have you ever heard of,, absence makes the heart grow fonder??? try that,, and if your a good person, others will fall into your life,,so try that,, bye jim
2007-03-14 02:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by wgggn_babyjim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy won't at least meet you halfway then he's not worth it
2007-03-14 02:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no its fine, may be he is shy,its nothing wrong if u take the first move,if u really want something out of ur relation do not sit back n leave ur ego.
2007-03-14 02:07:17 · answer #10 · answered by peppy 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋