I met a guy about two months ago. We hit it off and started dating, after about two months we both realized we knew even though we like each other its not going anywhere, and accepted that we'll just be friends with benefts, but we're a little more actually, kind of like companions. He said it was because even though he likes me a lot, he just loves women too much and that hes no good for me. I told him i was fine with knowing that he didnt want me as a girlfriend and i didnt either. Im not really emotionally attached like i usually get with guys. We still hang out like twice a week and everythings still the same. We act like a couple when we're together. He still treats me good, always shows signs of affection(holding hangs, spooning, kissing (he says he doesnt usually kiss girls unless he really likes him, just has sex with them, hes a player) but he actually cares for me and gets kind of jealous when i talk about other guys) does he secretly like me and is just scared to admit it?
2007-03-13 18:32:40 · 4 answers · asked by tragickingdom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Personally the only person he is playing is you. You will end getting hurt. I know you say you don't see it going anywhere but give it time and you'll want to be more than friends with benefits. He only make you feel that you are special so that he can get what he wants when he wants it. You should think that you are worth more than that. All I hope is that while you enjoy your benefits that you are being responsible and using protection. You don't want to have a love child.
2007-03-13 18:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by bvan_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he likes you. I think he feels as though he's still too young to commit and you're the exact type of girl he wants to settle down with. Why else would he do all the nice things with you. There's gots to be a reason why he treats you differently. If he gets jealous when you talk about other guys like you said, that's a definite sign. He's scared to admit he likes you in the forever type. Good luck
2007-03-14 01:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by Roger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. He doesn't secretly like you at all. His male ego wants you to be crushed he wont be with you. He seems jealous when you talk about guys because he wants you to be so wrapped up with him that you don't think about anyone else. Its just an ego thing.
2007-03-14 01:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like, also if you're talking about other guys maybe he thinks your little relationship will end. You don't have to be extremely serious in appearances to have fairly serious feelings-- I hope that made sense.
2007-03-14 01:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by parrotsandgrog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋