i've been dating the same girl for the past 10 months. i'm her first boyfriend. we both go to the same college, so we spend a lot of time together. we have fun together and all. last week, i told her "i love u". she did not say it back to me, she just stayed in my arms and kissed me... i was alright with it then...but i just wonder if she does love me. like...she does give me attention and seems to like beign with me...but sometimes, i'm worried that she doesnt reallhy love me and never will... i donno if i should say it again...or just leave it at that and hope maybe she'll tell me she does one day, but it has been 10 months, and i was scared to say it, but i knew i was in love with her from the moment we started going out. now i feel like i've left it all there out for her, and i donno how she feels about it. i just want to know if she feels the same. is that weird? am i worrying too much? i dont want to push it.
2007-03-13 18:30:02 · 9 answers · asked by vsbk2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't say it again, just let it be. If she heard you, she knows your feelings and it's probably best to give her time to reflect on and understand her own. Its a fairly personal decision on how you feel about somebody else and putting her in that position again might force her to give an answer that is either a) rushed or b) not genuine. I know it's tough to wait, but if love is anything, it's patient.
2007-03-13 18:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by MrSparkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't think too much. Action speaks louder than words. If she kiss you when you said that you love him. She also like you the same way you feel about her. Some can't say what they really feel. Just trust her. Maybe she's not that familiar with having a boyfriend.
2007-03-14 01:41:24 · answer #2 · answered by Jeanus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, her kiss was a form of love. Maybe your girlfriend is not that expressive. If things are going right, you don’t have to worry and. There is no reason for you to stop telling her you love her. If you really love her, be patient. I think she loves you too coz if not she will not waste her time on you....
Good luck…
Know her more
2007-03-14 01:46:32 · answer #3 · answered by RJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let things happen. She might not feel comfortable saying something like that yet. Give it more time and try not to second guess her
2007-03-14 01:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by ambrosius15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has it been since you told her and she didnt answer?
If it has been more thatn a month, then you should start worrying. Good luck
2007-03-14 01:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by Carlos A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are worrying too much, just relax and enjoy your time together, only time will tell if she loves you or not.
2007-03-14 01:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by mrdude95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just in the Middle of something like Cudling or something ask her "do you love me "
2007-03-14 01:34:59 · answer #7 · answered by Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she does love you...but she just not ready to say it yet...u r her first bf.....shes new to that kind of thing
2007-03-14 01:34:12 · answer #8 · answered by right_field_cutie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her time sweetie, if she loves you she'll say it. be patient. love is patient ya know.
2007-03-14 01:34:33 · answer #9 · answered by splenda sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋