yes, I said too late! I have lost possible girlfriends from trying to have sex too early and it just happened that I lost one from trying to kiss someone an hour after hand holding on the first date. I have no problem waiting, but I don't want to come off as a bore and be put in the friend zone. I would like to hear what is going on in a woman's mind when on a date and also any help in calibrating when to kiss and also sex...
2007-03-13 18:25:43 · 6 answers · asked by 33ea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that i would wait until the second date to kiss but a peck on the cheek is fine after the first date as for sex let her make the first move it usually works out better
2007-03-13 18:29:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey now wonder, u tried to kiss her...on the first date...just after holding her hand??? arent u the fast one -LOL
First date u never go for major stuff, holding hands is almost pushing it....unless u both are really into each other.
Go for the peck on the second date, &the real kiss on the third depending on how she reacts u'll know if he out of the friends box or not.
Its all about reading a girls reaction, if she kisses u back, if she presses herself against u..etc etc
....these little things will let u know if she is the type to sleep with u after a short period of time, or if she wants to be in a relationship with u first
2007-03-13 18:43:01 · answer #2 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this could be calibrated, you would have studied it in school. Each person is different, so when you feel you want to, just try to kiss her and see how she responds. If she pulls away, just back off and wait for another time. It never pays to force any issue when feelings are involved.
I also agree that she should make the first advance with regard to sex.
2007-03-13 18:33:56 · answer #3 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i normally wait to kiss at least until the 3rd or 4th date and sex needs to wait until you are both ready. don't force it and don't try anything until you have dated for awhile or she will think that's all you care about is sex
2007-03-13 18:29:57 · answer #4 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is from a dude, but my gf told me that she showed me that she wanted a kiss when she looked directly into my eyes and couldn't move away from them. It worked. Hope this helps. Good Luck
2007-03-13 18:30:32 · answer #5 · answered by Roger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wait to kiss her until the second date, unless she tries to kiss you. as for sex, wait until you two have done everything else, thought about it, wanted to, Then when you both really want it...do it. don't push her, girls get just as horny as men do.
2007-03-13 18:35:28 · answer #6 · answered by 258Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋