My best friend ,Kim, and her bum of a boyfriend just broke up. It is bumming me out to see her having to go thru all the stuff he throws her way. They are still living together so she can take care of him for 2 more weeks until his surgery is over and then he is moving to Florida. He keeps on complaining about all the money and stuff he has put into their house and it makes her cry on a daily basis. I just need some advice to give to her so she can move on completely and not think about him and all the stuff she puts up with. When she is at my house she is happy and doesnt think about him but she just left to go back home. When I call her tomorrow i know i will hear all the bad things that he has said and done. I so want to help her move on to better people.
2007-03-13 18:22:53 · 9 answers · asked by hay-hay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't really do anything but talk to her, then it's up to her what she does. just tell her that she deserves better, and she will find someone else who will be better for her and that not all men are the same. tell her to focus on the good things in her life and not to dwell on the bad.
2007-03-13 18:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think theres a solution to this, how long have they been living togethere? well anyways i think your friend is just going through a diffucult time right now and its ok i mean its a once in a life time thing. Let her experience it i know it really hurts in the inside and your her friend and you dont want to see that. but hey learn something new once in a life time is pretty awesome to try, she`ll get over him i`m sure she can but it may take time tell her that " dont hang on to long , but dont let go to fast"
i hope this help "/ <3
2007-03-14 01:28:45 · answer #2 · answered by MHD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ahrd to break up even with a jerk there are alot of emotions and feelings invested it will make things easier when he leaves but she will still need a sholder to cry on
the best thing is for to get on with her life right away take her out rally her other friends and keep her busy soon she'll forget ol whats his name or at least be to busy to be sad and slowly she will heal
2007-03-14 01:31:49 · answer #3 · answered by badluckbear1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems to be a sadist. Once he moves away she can make new friends and be happy.
2007-03-14 01:31:06 · answer #4 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he finally moves away, the problem goes away too.
2007-03-14 01:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to leave his bitchy recovering *** and let him fend for himself....bet he won't complain so much then.
2007-03-14 01:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by evilim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her shes better off not having a jerk who would treat her like this....plain and simple.
2007-03-14 01:42:07 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she is doing it to her self and no one else is
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2007-03-14 01:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Q 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not your business
2007-03-14 01:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by Ali 5000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋