My 8 year lod daughter walked in on me and my wife. Please HELP!!!
2007-03-13 18:12:19 · 11 answers · asked by j g 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
Use words that confuse her, then tell her its a game that only adults can do
2007-03-14 07:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is an interesting situation... first i think your wife should be the one to talk to her. And even at that she shouldn't go too much into a discussion. All she should really do is explain that you guys were doing something that adults do to show their love for eachother. Then she should ask if your daughter has any questions or concerns... and take it from there.
2007-03-13 18:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by ♡ kalila♡ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her you dropped ur gum while changing and ur wife was helping find it uh the excuse for ur wife is she was about to get in the shower lol i hardly doubt this will work but u could try but i agree i think ur wife should have "the talk" with your daughter that way she wont learn from other people at school or any one like that plus if your wife and u give her the talk it will make her more comfortable going to you about advice later on in her life im not saying any one is ever comfortable asking their parents about it but it will make it easier so she doesnt get the wrong advice from her friends
2007-03-13 18:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by 123456789 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should be honest with her .I don't mean explain sex to her but tell her it's an expression of love that mommy's and daddy's do.Answer her questions as honestly as possible (but sugar-coated)This way when she's older she'll realize that she was not lied to and respect you for it.You have noting to feel bad about ,you wouldn't believe how common an occurrence this is !!What was her reaction ?Talk to her about it ,she may not even care or have questions.
Good Luck !!
2007-03-13 19:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by tammie1ca 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Be honest, try not to act embarrassed. what you were doing was natural and fun, you dont want her thinking it's shameful. Don't give too many details, just stick to the basics and like someone already said, ask if she has any questions. 12 year olds are giving blow jobs and having sex now so it's not too soon to start talking. no need to sugar coat it. and teach her that if the door is shut, to knock. or like someone suggested, lock it, LOL!
2007-03-13 19:12:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's time to have the birds and the bees chat (which might come in handy because puberty is right around the corner.)
2007-03-13 18:39:23 · answer #6 · answered by Rebecca C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when this happened my me and my husband years ago we just told my son mommy and daddy where naked wrestling grown-ups do that some times but my son was allot younger than 8 its time to explain sex
2007-03-13 18:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your daughter that you were playing an adult game.It requires you to hold each other.Like wrestling.
2007-03-13 18:28:33 · answer #8 · answered by tturbod2001 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you just need to tell her that when people get married and they are in love they show their love in ways like kissing. Surely she's seen you kiss your wife. She should get it.
2007-03-13 20:56:11 · answer #9 · answered by Starry 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
lock the door next time.
2007-03-13 19:05:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋