ok it seems like yall dont understand...it's not that im ashame of where i'm from but it's just that i've met this girl trough the internet and i dont like putting my correct infos through the web i told her that i was from a country but the truth is that im really not from there. i didnt even know that i would end up dating her, because if i knew then i wouldnt have lied to her in the first place, but now she and i have been dating for 10 Months. That's the only thing that i've lied about it her. Now i really feel bad for doing that. she ans i love each other to death but i dont know how she will react if i tell her that i've lie to her. it's the only thing that i've ever lied to her about, and I know it's wrong that i've lied to her but like i said i didnt know i would end up dating her. I know i got to tell her the truth about that but i dont know how...so please help.
2007-03-13 18:11:18 · 12 answers · asked by Bling Bling 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're obviously not that much of a pimp daddy.
Just get her drunk and tell her, win win situation.
2007-03-13 18:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
ok well first of all if you haven't actually met her in person then you can't honestly know that the love is for real. i know that the Internet has progressed a lot and stuff but you still can't know for sure. for all you know she could be so smelly hairy guy who lives in his mothers basement and is just trying to get a laugh/ maybe you need to meet her. if it just says thats where you are from on your info and you ha vent actually said to her where your from , then chances are maybe she doesn't really believe that's where your from. and its not that big of a deal if its the only thing you have ever lied about and its not even really a lie. maybe one time that you guys are talking you could casually say something like example- " i love the beach, i grew up in California" she wont be mad. and if she is then you know that your love isn't for real,
2007-03-14 01:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by nicole 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i recommend u to tell her as soon as possible.. the longer u wait the harder it will be for her.. just let her know that u have something to tell her.. and that u love her so much.. and let her know where u from.. tell her thats the only thing lie u told her.. and did not tell her earlier bkux u tough she would not be interstend in a person from ??????? country.. and that now she knows how u realy are in the inside.. can she forgive u...
IF SHE TRUELY LOVES U LIKE SHE SAYS she will forgive u..
2007-03-14 01:16:11 · answer #3 · answered by Jay-Cee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
id just tell her and clear ur conscience if you told her that befor u even knew anything there is nothing wrong with not wanting to put out ur correct info just say u were being cautious and say what you said in ur question if she loves u she will understand
2007-03-14 01:16:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi
I did not like your "pimp dad" ID..?????? anyway.. How can someone writes in the worldwide open space to tell his feelings towards someone and BUT, he does not have any sincere deceny to tell or write the woman he loves... how dear you.. ??if you do not tell her.. or write to her ..you are going to lose her... dont you get it... write and tell her... the TRUTH.. FASTER YOU WRITE AND TELL BETTER YOU ARE GOING TO BE IF YOU NEED TO BE WITH HER. You have no right to hurt her feelings and destroy her love to you.. if you care go had do it immediately.. may be you have a small change to hope to win her.. good luck..
2007-03-14 01:23:48 · answer #5 · answered by fidalgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her exactly how you told us. Either she will understand or over react and dump you. If she doesnt want to continue the relationship with you it means that she is not miss right for you.
2007-03-14 01:19:46 · answer #6 · answered by rams 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you're right you should not have lied to her at all, especially something simple like that. honestly though, i don't think you should tell her i have always heard what you don't know won't hurt you. unless, it bothers really bad and keeps you awake at night then you should otherwise i wouldn't worry about it.
2007-03-14 01:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by mrs garfield 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohhhh. That's a much better explanation. I still say tell her the truth, especially if you did it for internet security. Many people would find that reasonable.
2007-03-14 01:17:06 · answer #8 · answered by callmeplayfair 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should just tell her the truth now than to wait and get caught up even further in a lie...explain it to her...if she loves you like she says she does she'll understand...
2007-03-14 01:15:08 · answer #9 · answered by jericho41388 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth. You don't like that type of information on the net. I am sure she will understand. If not, that is her loss. Besides...
if it is love...
then viva love!
LUCK!
2007-03-14 01:15:07 · answer #10 · answered by Noodles 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ewww i really hope that ur relationship isint over the internet but just tell her u lied
2007-03-14 01:15:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋