I am 19 years old and my friends compliment me all the time on how I have a cute figure. I can wear low cut jeans and my stomach does not come over my pants, but I feel depressed sometimes because of my weight. My size is 34 27 38 but I am still upset about it. I feel that being thin is the only way to be considered attracted. Are men generally attracted to curvy females or do they not like that.
2007-03-13 17:32:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
Ladies ladies you are beautiful. We're not concerned with your weight as a number as much as how you "wear" it
anything under 200 is perfect for me.
and as long as you dont try to fit into something past your size then you look great so stop stressing!
2007-03-13 17:43:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am 5'4 too but i weigh 120 lbs.I think the perfect weight is around 117-120 lbs for our height.Snice your 19 and in your teens you should be atleast 5 lbs less because by the time you hit 21 you will automatically start gaining a bit of weight.Yes guys like curvy girls better.
2007-03-13 17:51:24 · answer #2 · answered by supersonic 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
sweetie if men weren't attracted to curvie figures I wouldn't have had my 2 kids nor would I have had any boyfriends. 5'4 and 125 pounds is perfect! Don't get depressed over your weight instead tell yourself at least you aren't chunkysmom who is 5'5 and 230 pounds. Men are attracted to all different kinds of women. Hope this helps!
2007-03-13 17:41:09 · answer #3 · answered by chunkysmom3502 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hi Destiny,
Ill let you know in a minute what this guy and most of my guy friends like, however at 19 you SHOULD NOT be worried about what guys think about you nor what your gfriends think about you, be concerned over what YOU think about you and let the others deal with it. Your despression probably stems from the fact that you DONT know yourself at all and are NOT comfortable with your body, and most likely dont appreciate your body. Destiny, whats the most EROTIC part of your body? ...if you said anything besides your MIND then youve got some work to do, you need to SEE yourself as erotic, sexy, sensual and atractive before you can BE those things. I recommend the following, make a date with yourself, make sure your alone in the house, lock the door to your room, get candle lights, incense and in front of a full length mirror put on lengerie, admire yourself in sexy poses, get naked and explore your body, all of it, and keep looking at those parts in front of the mirror, use scented oils and explore your own body, use sex toys to excite yourself, find out what turns YOU on and what feels good to you, what gets you to orgasms more intensely than others, do this several times a week over a months time and soon those negative thoughts will be gone and God help the next guy you set your eyes on. By the way, me and most of my guy friends love sensual womanly curves over fashionable skeletons, they might look good in jeans, but get em naked and "greyhound dog" usualy comes to mind. Reach out for me if you want more info.
2007-03-13 17:53:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say your weight is fine. If I were you, I'd try to worry less about it. Some guys like curvy girls, some guys like slimmer ones. Just depends on the guy.
5'4" 125 lbs fat? No way! In fact, I'm pretty sure that's around healthy...
2007-03-13 17:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by pianowire20 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a good weight. Do you exercise at all? Exercise helps you get a better attitude about your body. It burns not only calories but extra hormones, so you can feel calm and content. Walk and bike. If you feel like it, try weights. Don't over do, just do! You will look and feel great. Muscle weighs more than fat and gives definition to your arms and legs. It's just a good habit to be in, exercising.
2007-03-13 17:42:23 · answer #6 · answered by Susan M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutley nothing wrong with your weight or your size. I feel the only problem is your obvious lack of confidence. I'm sure you look fantastic, just have some confidence in yourself. And yes, men love slim curvy women like yourself!
HTH : )
2007-03-13 19:50:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not fat.
Instead of concentrating just on your weight, which can be a misleading milestone, you should evaluate your ratio of fat to lean body mass. Since you're a woman, you can have a higher percentage of body fat and still be health.
A quick measure of whether you're obese or not is your BMI, or body mass index. Yours is 21.5, which is normal.
Some men, myself included do find curvy women attractive.
2007-03-13 17:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by helloiamchuck 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are attracted to confidence. Many american women only wish they could be your size. Your stats are quite thin, and im sure you look great. Don't dwell on it, girls are just too hard on themselves.
2007-03-13 17:41:26 · answer #9 · answered by bluejeanwifey 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thats what Im trying to get at. Im at 129 lbs and 5'4. But thats my goal Im trying to reach right now. You are fine! I feel so disgusting too... Im not sure why though. :(
2007-03-13 17:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by JustWondering 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋