its all about my firm believe... please help me?

Question

i am a firm believer in my religion and my religion forbids drinking alcohol and also go clubbing and also other things like making out. But now it seems that i want to try all of those things. My friends who are way far more religious than me have done it all... should i follow my heart or stick to my believe cause sometimes in my heart i feel that why not try.. please help me...and also my bf destroyed me a little cause he forced me to kiss him and in the end i did. and now its addictive.

Answer 1

Obviously...you are not THAT firm a believer or you would not be asking a this question....especially your last statement. rethink your religious values and morals hun...yes...you need help but not from an online answer.

Answer 2

Of course you want to try all those things. Satan makes all that look wonderfully fun and attractive. What can come from them? Getting drunk, getting into compromising positions with guys, being in a position you may not want to find yourself.

Be wise, do not put yourself in the way of harm. The bible has this very interesting verse, "there is a way that seems right to man, but in the end it leads to destruction". Satan never sidles up to anyone and says "this is bad for you, it's going to destroy your life", he says "oh, they are full of it....this is fun and they just want to ruin your fun".

Find friends that know Jesus. Being a Christian doesn't mean you can't have fun. It means the kind of fun you can have is the best kind, good clean fun that won't leave you sick and wishing you "hadn't done that".

Answer 3

Follow what your religion is saying. I can tell that you have Jesus in your heart, the fact that you are feeling the way you do. Now as for your friends... If they have done all those things that you are saying they can not be that spiritual/religious as they are saying or how you perceive them to be. Because if they were they wouldn't have done or are doing those things. The Bible says: The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately wicked; who can know it. Jer.17:9

Answer 4

You ask a very difficult question. Let me answer it this way...
If you believe that your God does not want you to do these things, then don't do them...no matter who else is doing it. But, if you have been told by a religious leader these things, I would ask that he or she show you in your holy book where it says that you should not do them. Sometimes, organized religions have their own thing going rather than specifically following the guidelines of their originators.

Answer 5

there is bad element in those places is best to stay out.Stay involved in school; and constructive living. You sound young and it is a mistake to fall into such temptation and could lead down a very bad road. Beware of people who think there cool and apart of the in crowd. Alcohol makes people week and they do things they normally wouldn't. Some people also get in bondage to the Demon of addiction and man you don't want that. They will spend there money on cigarettes alcohol or drugs before they will pay there bills or take care of themselves . Anyway it's better to stay focus on things that will build you up no slowly or otherwise tear you down. God bless!

Answer 6

stating the obvious if we were to discuss the harmful effects of drinking on the individual's mind, his health, his religion, and his work; or if we discussed the disasters which he brings upon his family by neglecting their needs and by not fulfilling his obligations, as the head of the family, toward his wife and children; or if we elaborated on the spiritual, material, and moral evils which proliferate in societies and nations due to the widespread consumption of alcohol. A researcher in this area has rightly stated that: Mankind has not suffered any greater calamity than that brought about by the use of alcohol

a small amount leads to large amounts and one glass to other glasses, until one becomes' addicted to it. For this reason Islam's stand in prohibiting alcohol and in blocking all avenues, which lead to drinking, is very clear and unequivocal.

Answer 7

If you're a kid (and I suspect you are since you have a "bf"), then you should not be drinking alcohol and going clubbing. When you become a responsible adult, then it's OK to do these things. Religion is very limiting. If you want to become a martyr for religion, then I suggest you adhere to its strict guidelines...but if you want to live your own life (and enjoy it), then follow your heart.

Answer 8

i'm business enterprise in my ideals yet do no longer constantly prepare them besides as i might want to. i will by no ability waver on the reality the Jesus is my savior, that God is the source of all it rather is stable in my existence and that the Holy Spirit provides me capability. (Granted, I do from time to time ask your self whether it is not all a figment of a few massive area amoeba's mind's eye, inspite of the incontrovertible fact that it does not final too long. lol)

Answer 9

You are gradually waking up to the truth that religion is nonsense and you will be better off without it. In millennia of trying, no one has ever succeeded in coming up with a credible demonstration of the existence of any sort of god, and since it is impossible in principle to either prove or disprove the existence of god, it IS provable that no theory of god can be of any use in the real world. Please read:

Answer 10

Follow God if you can. Muslims among many others do not believe that Jesus died for all of your sins, but Christians believe that we get saved only by mercy and grace of God. We all fall short from the glory of God : )