My ex (we broke up 5 wks ago after being togetehr for 5yrs)
said to me yesturday that he was sort of seeing someone. Should I tell him that it hurts me? I still love him, but know that we are not getting back togetehr any time soon. I have been on with a guy, but havent had sex with him. I am pretty sure he has had sex with her. Should I say anything to him?
2007-03-13 17:15:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't say anything, move on.
2007-03-13 17:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Angelz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I believe you should do what you think would give you piece of mind. If you feel that you need to know, then tell him what you think. I don't believe that will change things, but if you ask him, at least you won't have to guess for the rest of your life. My best advice I can give you to put him behind you and get closer to the guy you're dating. Besides, if he's had sex, so what? Big deal. That doesn't make him any bigger a man. BE BETTER THAN HIM! RISE ABOVE YOUR GRIEF! Show him that you're better than him by moving on and that he can't bother you anymore. I'll pray for you.
2007-03-14 00:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by bond_fan_001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Even if you haven't had sex with the guy you have been seeing, you were still cheating on your ex by being with the other man. Perhaps you ex found out about the other guy you have been seeing. So if you have been hurt because he was honest enough to tell you about him seeing someone else, just imagine how hurt he must have been.
2007-03-14 00:28:21 · answer #3 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is over, move on. You should not discuss his dating life with him. It is none of your business and is not mentally healthy. He knows you still love him and are hurting. He no longer cares. It is hard, but you must move on. Stay away from your ex until you have had some time and distance and the pain is not so raw.
Move on girl. There will be others.
2007-03-14 00:23:25 · answer #4 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cared about how you felt, he wouldn't have told you he was seeing someone in the first place. He told you this because he knows that you are still in love with him and he wants you to move on and know that you are not getting back together. Good luck.
2007-03-14 00:19:46 · answer #5 · answered by stseukn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!! Please don't! I mean by the sound of it, it seems as though he wouldn't even care because of the fact that he has moved on so fast!! Just do the best thing which is to move on...if you need to help with the feelings that you feel right now then you should write a letter addressed to him stating all that you feel, BUT don't send it!
2007-03-14 00:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Sol 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is one the hardest things to do so I understand that you don't want to go on. The best thing to do is to occupy yourself with as much as possible to think less and less about him and what he's doing. Yes, it's going to hurt but in this case, its for your good. But if you do confront him again, don't make yourself resentful, but be honest with him on how hurt you are. If you don't share your feelings now, bitterness and hatred could set in if it hasn't already.
2007-03-14 00:30:35 · answer #7 · answered by hardworkur84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. If you say there's not a chance of getting back together, what are you holding on to?
2007-03-14 00:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by It's Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since it hurts you tell him.Since he's moving on, it would be best just to let him go. It's a real hell to get in a yo yo relationship . I hope you never have to be in one.
2007-03-14 00:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by ralahinn1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes the best thing to do is to express what u feel for him so he will know and maybe there will be a 50 50 % chance he will return back to your arms
2007-03-14 00:21:47 · answer #10 · answered by MIMI LOVES WHO?? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's over so just let it go. If you are seeing someone, you are as guilty as he is.
2007-03-14 00:20:47 · answer #11 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋