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Me and my BFs two year anniversary is coming, which is better, doing the appropriate thing, or crossing the line??

Appropriate-I take my bf to his favorite resturant, we go to the movies and take a romantic walk alongside a lake


Crossing the line- taking him to a strip club, get us a VIP room, and the stripper and I can both give him a lapdance (I'll be dressed in lingerie as well)..Then we go home and have a little more fun..I plan on doing this in the daytime because there are not as much men at that time

if I "cross the line" will this be a good idea, also is this possible?? How much money should I be expected to spend??

If you think I shouldn't "cross the line" why?

thanks

2007-03-13 17:14:25 · 14 answers · asked by IceQueen 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

14 answers

I'd want my girl to take me to a nice dinner then take me home and let me do whatever I want to her.

2007-03-13 17:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by It's Me 5 · 1 0

well, why do YOU think it's about crossing the line on choice #2? is this something totally taboo for you? Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. If you do #2, be expected to shell out ALOT of money, and be sure the club will let you strip as well (may not because you'll be taking away from the strippers job). Why not do #1 and then later at night strip for him?

2007-03-14 00:19:08 · answer #2 · answered by Karrie 3 · 0 0

I think you should do what you're most comfortable with and what you 'feel' is appropriate for the occasion. If you two love each other and have a healthy relationship, he'll appreciate anything heartfelt that you do. The 'crossing the line' option sounds more appropriate for a bachelor party or a big wedding anniversary to me. Do you feel your relationship is strong enough at 2 years to do this?

2007-03-14 00:23:58 · answer #3 · answered by Kat 2 · 0 0

For the appropriate: Spend no more than $100(or more) because you'll buy wine, have a great meal, and watch a great movie...
For crossing the line: If it's one of his fantasies you want to help fulfill go for it. Especially if he's worthy of it.
Whichever you choose I know you will make it unforgettable.

2007-03-14 00:24:02 · answer #4 · answered by LT 3 · 0 0

why don't you do the best of both worlds. take hi out to eat and go to the lake or whatever but then afterward head home and give him his own lapdance free of charge. that way it really can be just you and him... you know what I mean. it's your anniversary so spend it with him not him and a stripper.

2007-03-14 00:18:32 · answer #5 · answered by Suya 4 · 3 0

depends on how ur bf is.
If he is one of those crazy exciteing guys go with the cross the line thing. But if he is more of a quieter cool calmed guy id go with the restaurant.

Besides if its ur anniversary its kinda something u would want to spend alon with him.
You could ask him to see what he would like.

2007-03-14 00:18:50 · answer #6 · answered by Slappn 3 · 0 0

A threesome is usually just about fulfilling an adolescent fantasy about sex.If you are not heavily emotionally involved with this person(not likely)you can treat this as a casual thing.What goes on between two people who are emotionally -involved goes beyond intellectual understanding.You may be creating pain and confusion for yourself by diluting what you offer to your mate into cheap thrills.

2007-03-14 00:23:17 · answer #7 · answered by kevin k 5 · 0 0

You should ease the topic of strip clubs into a conversation with him to find out if he's interested. Or maybe you already know he's interested. But anyway, if he is interested, go for it. It would be a great time for him, and maybe even for you.

...OR...

Why not take him to his favorite restaurant, then go back to your place, or his place, or wherever you intended to go, and strip for him there. It's free!!!

2007-03-14 00:19:40 · answer #8 · answered by hell_speak 2 · 0 0

there is nothing wrong with your idea. i have friends who take their husbands to the strip club on the regular. this is all for fun and believe me you will benefit from his erection i mean excitement. as far as the cost, if you love him it should not matter.

2007-03-14 00:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Star 4 · 1 0

Well if you feel comfortably than go a head. Make sher he doesn't mind you dancing with another girl on him.(lol-Of coarse he won't mind)

2007-03-14 00:21:05 · answer #10 · answered by Carmel15007 1 · 0 0

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