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SO i like this guy and i don't know if he likes me, how can i tell?

2007-03-13 16:55:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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***How to tell if he likes you
(and if he's flirting with you in his special own guy-way).

A lot depends on the type of guy and his individual personality.

Shy Guys
These are tough to crack sometimes...
*He'll look at you, until you turn around, then boom, he's looking the other way.
You may 'feel' like he's watching you - but he's hard to catch at it

* He may do something physical - like grab you in a play way, poke you, play with your hair...
(Remember when you were really young and the guy you liked punched you or tackled you?)

*He may be working really hard to pay attention to you, but doesn't quite know how...

*He may ask a friend of yours about you - he'll say it's just for "friend of mine" that wants to know about you.

*He talks to everybody else - but when you're around he turns silent, or chokes up.
You seem to accidentally bump into him a lot of different places.

*He may not say a word to you, but he shows up in the same line, at the same movie, etc.

*He'll give you a little smile from across the room, but if you get near, he won't look up.
Basically - the BIG clue is that his behavior changes when you're around (compared to when he's around his buds or other girls).
DEAD Giveaway - when you talk to him he turns red.
(Bingo - you can pack that puppy up and take him home...)

These are some of the more subtle clues - keep your eyes open - you may have more guys flirting with you than you realize!!!

*He remembers little things you mention in casual conversation.
It may take you by surprise. You might have been talking when he was around and two weeks later he'll say, "Well, you like orange fizz..."

*His voice changes when he talks to you in a group. He may say "Hey." to everyone with you, but the "Hey." to you is a little different.

*His voice gets softer when the two of you talk.

Sometimes he stares straight into your eyes.

*His eyes get 'soft' when he looks at you. They change slightly or get relaxed around the edges. It's subtle, but you can tell if you watch...
(You may already be aware of it at a subconscious level - that's what made you start wondering if he likes you...)

When he's near you or talking with you, his eyes travel in a little circle around your face and land back on your eyes. (Like he's looking at your whole face - then back to your eyes.)

*He watches your lips. (Dead give away.)

*His friends start asking you questions - if you haven't met him yet - they may ask what your name is. Or may ask you what you think about 'him.'

If his friends are paying attention to you after he's been staring at you - it can mean that he's been talking about you.

*He tells you that you smell nice...
(No hidden meaning here - it's a good thing.)

*He might act weird around you or seem very nervous. His behavior may just plain change when you're around.
If he's normally quiet, he may get louder, or vice versa. It's the difference in behavior that's the clue.

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*Much Love* **God Bless**

2007-03-16 12:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tell Mariee 7 · 0 0

Oh right, you didn't read the manual either. Any more out there who didn't read the manual?

He likes you or he doesn't. A better question would be, "How do I get him to like me?"

That is the question you meant to ask. Act coy, not shy. Act fresh, not bored. Act interested in him, not what he does. But when you get done, You'll be saddened by the fact that you've done nothing but ACT the part.

If you find yourself attracted to him, stare at him. Then look down. Look back up and smile your best. Hold up your fingers for the sign to "Call Me" Then ask him if he wants to find out who you are cause you'd like to know who he is.

Are you worried about rejection? No chance. When you walk in a field full of dandelions, do you worry about getting stung? Nope, because after all is said and done, you pull the stinger out and put some ice on it. You're over it.

Hurts a little but so does stubbing your toe. And, that never made you afraid of walking again, did it?

2007-03-14 00:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 2

(1) A guy would easily confess when asked straight
(2) He would get flushed in the cheeks and ears around you on slight teasing.
(3) He'll give "the look"

2007-03-14 00:01:24 · answer #3 · answered by Sean 4 · 0 0

well if you want to find out, get a friend so go ask him casually, but dont mention that the question was from you.
i did that and it worked.
most guys make it pretty obvious though
unless they're really shy.

2007-03-14 00:01:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

-he talks to you
-smiles alot
-walks with you
-trys or gives you hugs
-listens
-sounds interested
-remembers stuff you told him before

2007-03-13 23:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by <3<3 3 · 0 0

he looks at you, smiles at you, is curtious, talks to you in a shylike way, stuff like that.

2007-03-13 23:59:10 · answer #6 · answered by ZeRo 1 · 0 0

go talk to him and ask him yourself. good luck

2007-03-13 23:58:35 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0 0

unlike you "girls" we guys make it very obvious.....we really do...

2007-03-14 00:00:18 · answer #8 · answered by Clementine 2 · 0 0

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