Ok so I met this girl online, and I never thought I was date her online. A lot of people think that's stupid but it all started when she found out who I had a crush on and then yeah she was hurt and we never talked and it was over the internet but I still felt guilty so I started talking to her trying to cheer her up. And yeah I ended up falling in love with her over msn. I'm 15 and she's 13. I'M NOT A PEDOFILE. And she's not a pedofile. We've spoken on the phone a few times. And yeah anyways. I'm her first love and she's not my first love. Cause like in your first love you think you're going to last forever and then if you break up which most people do, you realize you don't usually last forever. And she thinks we're going to last forever. I know that things are not what they seem so yeah and I don't want to spoil her 'first love' by bringing her hopes down. =\ I am in love with her though, I'm positive I am. But I think bad experience with MY first love is effecting me. D=
2007-03-13 16:52:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My heart goes out to your girlfriend. A first love is so sweet and pure and in her heart it 'is' forever. Tread carefully on her heart; don't lead her on if you have the slightest doubts. As you so wisely say, most of these young romances usually don't last. One never knows. But she is so young and will go through so many changes in her life like high school and making a lot of new friends. She will change and grow as she experiences life. One thing is certain though; she will never ever forget you. My heart goes out to you too because you say you have fallen in love with her also. I don't know if you live far apart from each other; if you do that's the main obstacle in this romance going anywhere. Both of you won't want to keep up a virtual relationship, especially you because you will want real dates. So take it slow ; that's the best advice I can give you.
2007-03-13 17:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kinda understand. Never had the exact same thing but i can relate a bit. I don't think you are any kind of pedophile for it. Hell there's only 2 years between you two. Anyhow I can see how you want to show caution because you know she will likely be hurt when it ends. Odds are though you will be the one hurt. She is younger. That part I know well. The younger is the one that will break it off most likely first. She is young and will change more faster than you will. I would say make the most of what you have with her and give her the most you have to offer. Enjoy your love as long as it lasts and when it comes to an end ( or if... maybe it will be one of those one in a million and you two will die happily of old age in each others arms) be happy for what you had and try to get her to be happy for it as well, and don't end it with pety feelings of jealousy or bickering. Stay on friendly terms. Good luck and enjoy what you have. Life is shorter than anyone realizes till the final moments.
2007-03-13 17:02:19 · answer #2 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was 15 I thought I was in love too. When you believe something so much it has to be true right? When that ended I was heart broken. I thought I was going to die it hurt so bad. Then I found someone else. Just go with your instincts and I'm not trying to be mean, but it probably will end. Just remember that life does go on and you were not destined to be together. You will find someone else IF this relationship fails. Just be together as long as you can and enjoy each other. I also believe it is possible to fall in love that young. I fell in love with my fiancee when I was 16.
2007-03-13 17:02:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have learned a lot in your young age. You will always remember your first love. Rarely it lasts through adulthood. Try to find someone at school. You can never tell who you are talking to over the internet. Just be safe.
2007-03-13 16:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by myangelbarry 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to people`s such as your friends and stuff opinion off course its retarded dating online. but hey theres a cool way of meeting new people and i`m think its totally fine. love ? well lets just say that many people say they fall in love but i think you dont understand what love means until your at the right age, i understand how you feel right now. yes i love her and blah. in the future when you look back to this , your going to think its a just a joke, so have fun with what your doing right now but dont fall to deep. dont hang on to long but dont let go to fast (:
thanks for reading,
2007-03-13 16:57:54 · answer #5 · answered by MHD 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes your bad experience is probably effecting you, but you need not to think of it when yall are talking and having a good time.
2007-03-13 16:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by Reece's Piece's 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That made me lightheaded!! It does sound like you like her. The way i see it is, you guys love each other. That's all that matters right now. If it works out, Great!! If it doesn't, there are a billion people in this world and one of them is the one for you, but apparently not her.
2007-03-13 16:56:51 · answer #7 · answered by Blah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you love her, dont you? so just grab her. its nothing wrong with that. yes, your first love maybe a bad experience, but dont make it effect you for the rest of your life. give this girls a chance to know you better, maybe it will turn up ok. so dont worry. if you sure you in love with this girls, just go on ok. gud luck:}
2007-03-13 16:59:55 · answer #8 · answered by idah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, you can definitely fall in love as a teen, but sorry, 13 & 15??? Plus, you didn't really ask a question...
2007-03-13 16:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by Stormy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hm.. tell her the truth
but dont break up with her
and if she breaks up
then it wasnt ever love
2007-03-13 16:57:20 · answer #10 · answered by <3<3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋