help asking some girl out?

Question

I am going to ask some girl out and I am a shy person what’s the best way to ask and if she tells me no then what because I have her for a class

Answer 1

hey.. wanna catch a movie this weekend with me?

Answer 2

First of all, most people are nervous to do this in the beginning. Second, I wouldn't sweat it, because it might hurt if she says no, but you'll be giving yourself some valuable experience in just asking her.

If this is your first time asking a girl out, I wouldn't make such a big deal of it in your own mind. Sometimes we think a date, or going out, has to be something like you see in the movies. It has to be perfect or you're a dork. That so is not the case. In college, students just go out for coffee!!! The thing here is that you just want to go do something with this girl-something means anything. So to improve your chances, you don't want to come off as wanting to "go out" as in be committed, even the idea of this puts girls on the cautious side. Think of something simple and don't be overzealous or go above and beyond. If you can go ice skating, or skating, or get some food together or whatever. I'd find a time where I could speak to her freely and I'd casually just say..."You know, we should go do something sometime." And just after you say that pay attention to how she reacts. If she looks repulsed, then you'll know not to ask. But I highly doubt that'll happen. She'll probably nod or smile a bit. After that, I'd move into whatever activity it is you've selected. If you are confident in this approach, she'll feel your confidence and probably like you a bit more than she may have before. Hopefully it goes well for you. If it doesn't go well, don't forget to keep putting yourself out there, you'll get better at it as you do it more and more. Good luck!!!

Answer 3

I would ask around first to see if the feeling is somewhat mutual, so then the relationship wouldn't be weird between ya'll if she said no. Also, just to make sure, flirt a little, to let her know your interested, but not enough to be like a stalker or something. The best way to ask is face to face, it is so gay if some guy ask you in a text or over the phone. Definitely NOT by someone else!

Answer 4

first do you know she is some what interested in you? dont hurt your self asking a girl out that doesnt have any interest in you. seen it happen before. you can maybe pass a note at the end of the class? or catch her in the hall when she is alone. she might get pressure when she is with friends. hope that helps

Answer 5

You could try adn get together with her in a bigger gruop. Maybe hold a party and inviter her and her friends, then talk to her there, or just talk to her alone after school and go out on a limb.

Answer 6

well first off, have u ever tlaked to her? if ur friends with her u should know if she likes u back, or get a friend to find out, dont ask her out untill ur sure that she wants to be with u too, that way u save urself the embarrasment and akward frienship afterwards.

Answer 7

Behave normal & start off talking causally or juz say Hi for a start if you are so shy.

Answer 8

first try to find out if she has something for u or not since u have her for class pass notes or something then if ur feeling comfortable go for it

Answer 9

go up to her and ask her out

Answer 10

see where you two stand first before you make a move like that big

Answer 11

lol well, does she like you?!? are you old enough to go out on a date? or are you asking her to be your girlfriend? I'd say don't ask her out unless you're sure that she likes you.