I workout at the gym and have become taken by this guy who comes in every day I'm there. When I see him the motivation to work harder comes about. I've never heard him talk, don't know his name, age, nothing. All I know is that he has a great body. I've only caught him looking @ me once. It seemed innocent though.
How do I get this guy to notice me? How can I tell if he likes me? Are guys as nervous as women to make a move. Should I make a move considering changed times and all?
2007-03-13 16:26:50 · 8 answers · asked by benjamin1823 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man are usually more shy in this cases that girls... I would never mind if a girl starts to talk to me first and Ill make sure if I like the girl to never regret talking to me. If I dont like her or not interested than Ill find the best way to let her know that I am not interested ..
2007-03-21 07:28:16 · answer #1 · answered by ermal_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a thought, why not just smile & say hi as you pass by or be brazen and tell - I just wanted you to know that you Motivate me to work harder, I just wanted to say Thanks! And leave and maybe walk away to the Locker room, muster up your confidence as if it wasn't a big deal but a grateful gesture - regardless the situation you said how you felt & you certainly get a reaction out of him. (No doubt leave him Dumbfounded)
But Know that sometimes while the Guy that stimulates our Body, isn't always the Guy that Stimulates our Mind....so getting to know him might ruin the Very thing that keeps your Fantasy Motivation going. Keep up the good work & Enjoy the View!!
2007-03-13 16:34:16 · answer #2 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, guys are just as nervous and women. During a workout, try and time it so you both are at the drinking fountain (or whatever) at the same time. Just talk causal with him. Tell him you are tired of being out of shape. If he disagrees with your statement and compliments your body, you're good to go.
2007-03-13 16:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strike up a conversation. Introduce yourself and talk about fitness and other gym-related things.
2007-03-13 16:31:09 · answer #4 · answered by Lexy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think of that's given which you're shy. i'm shy and it kind of feels human beings do in comparison to chatting with shy human beings! i are not getting approached very oftentimes and that i think of that's because of the fact I oftentimes deliver out "do no longer recommendations-set" vibes. while i've got seen beneficial grotesque human beings get extra interest. and generally they initiate the conversations first. shop attempting, i've got been doing it extra recently and that's been working somewhat.
2016-10-18 08:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by trinkle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just pass by him on the way to the water fountain and smile and say hello then tkae it to the next level and introduce yourself latter
2007-03-13 16:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by sayian_98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are lifting weights.. Ask him for a spot.. That is all it will take to strike up a conversation..
2007-03-13 16:30:46 · answer #7 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes men are men are as nervous as women........men are actually more nervous than women.......you know if your hot or not we dont......not many guys blow women off........
2007-03-13 17:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by Clementine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋