I still really, really, really, and I mean really like and care about my-ex, but I don't know if he feels the same about me. Every time i talk to him, I feel happy and when I'm not talking to him, I'm thimking about him and wanting for him to hold me again. Please help me. What should I do?
2007-03-13 16:24:25 · 17 answers · asked by lollypop3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't know
2007-03-13 16:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you should do depends on several things. Does he still have feelings for you, first of all? If he doesn't, you absolutely HAVE to let yourself move on. If he does, keep in mind that things still may not be perfect. Why did you break up in the first place? I always say that exes are exes for a reason...
If he wants to get back with you, make sure you talk over the issues from the first break-up and get them resolved. If not, there's nothing more you can do. Throwing yourself at someone who has no intentions with you will only cause further heartbreak. Good luck!
2007-03-13 16:29:47 · answer #2 · answered by emmabee2203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there hon, but it really appears that you need to focus on yourself and how to Fill that need without him. Whether or not your time will come again, the point of your separation is to grow as a person.....join in social activities or take some enriching classes like cooking, ect , search out for some new people to meet (not bars), and focus on you. I'm sure that by doing that you will feel better & if he doesn't notice...others will and you'll be on your way towards the great future that is waiting for you.
2007-03-13 16:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell him how you feel. Once it is out in the open you can find out if he feels the same. If you don't try you will never no. For some reason he doesn't feel the same way you will no were you stand and can move on with your life. Life is to short to hold out for someone if they really don't care about you...
2007-03-13 16:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by LadyBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What CAN you do... You're in love.
Come over here everyone. See this, that's what love looks like.
Crash, bang, boom and lots of pyrotechnics.
You are in no shape to do any heavy thinking. So, sorry about this, but, I need to brig you down so you can think.
WHY IS HE YOUR EX?????????????
What did you do to earn the title EX What did he do to earn the title EX?
You want to know if this is a mutual love? ASK the fool. Tell him "no games. Is there an US anymore?"
Then you have to live by the roll of the dice. Here's hoping he rolls a natural.
2007-03-13 16:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS he really that important to you? Wht did you break up with him in the first place? I think you need to re-think and consider other factors too. Think it over and over again. Make sure that your feelings are not feelings of loneliness and it could be mistaken as love. So make your priorities right. Try to meet new people and have fun and maybe you might not feel this way again. Good luck.
2007-03-13 16:29:39 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did not say why he is your EX. If he left you and nothing wrong on your part, if he was cheating and a jerk, then you need to be the nice person and go on with your life. But, if was for another reason ( no fault of either) then try being calm and let him see how sweet and loving you are by being that , but, but, from afar.
2007-03-13 16:36:16 · answer #7 · answered by Nita K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what i have been in your shoes. but the other was my fiance. but i really want to find someone who will basically love me and i promise to love her and give her everything i could possibly give her. but love should go both ways though.maybe you should move one and maybe you shouldn't. but it's your decision. don't be a statistic though. most women need the securit of the person they where with and hen they leave them and can't find n e one else they make themselfs think that there is no one for them so they go back to that person. it sucks but it happens.
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2007-03-13 16:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel! Thats the only way. Either you tell him how u feel find out if he feels the same and rekindle your love or tell him how u feel he doesnt feel the same..you give yourself the knowledge to mvoe on with your life. Or you just sit there and wonder and never have closure!
2007-03-13 16:28:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I felt the same when i broke up with my ex gf...but sometimes, you just gotta tough it out...hang with your girlfriends more, itll make u forget all about it!
(and trust me, no matter how much u dont wanna forget about it u have to, or else youll never move on)
2007-03-13 16:30:03 · answer #10 · answered by ZeRo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask your self: Why exactly did we break up? If he broke up with you then there is a part of you that really wants him because you cant have him....and then ask your self: why is it exactly that I cant have him? If you broke up with him then refer to the first question.
2007-03-13 16:29:18 · answer #11 · answered by autumn w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋