Should i feel depressed... Or just be hurt?

Question

Ive been talking 2 this guy 4 about a week, my friend hooked us up on a blind date. We havent seen each other and we have became really attached and have very strong feelings for each other,but the thing is i know that im beautiful but what bothers me is that ive seen his my space of a picture of his x girlfriend and she is pretty and looks like a model. I have sent him my pictures and he should be getting them in the next 2 days, what im depressed about is when he does get my picture what if his feelings change and i dont compair up 2 his x girlfriend???? He says that he doesnt care how i look and he knows he will like me and nothing will change but i know he does care how i look. What if im not pretty enough. I dont want 2 end up bein hurt becuz ive opened my heart 2 him and i know that there is plenty of guys out there but i like him alot becuz how he talks and how hes concern about me. What should i do????

Answer 1

You asked "should I feel depressed.. or just be hurt?" as if those were your only two options in this situation.
How about, hopefull, or full of anticipation over his reaction to your pictures?

He's been communicating with you & you two have hit it off without him knowing what you look like, so why are you so convinced that your looks are going to be a factor now?

You said that you know that you are beautiful, so then why is it that you are comparing yourself to someone else?
You know I have said it many times in this forum that men, (boys too) are attracted to many different types of women (or girls) for one common reason. The women who men find the most appealing have a level of confidence about them. When a woman feels sexy, she carries herself in a manner that men find irresistable.
I have found myself attracted to many women at one time or another, but not all of them could be described by most people as being potential models.

What I am trying to say is that there is more to sexual attraction than simple drop-dead good looks.

Now let's just for a second entertain the remote possibility that he does get turned off by your picture(s).
Wouldn't it be better to find out early that he is a superficial jerk early on, rather than find out later?

You know people are funny when it comes to things like this. We go ahead & project all kinds of our own thoughts into other peoples minds believing that somehow we have control over the other persons thoughts, & ideas.
The fact is that all of this anxiety that you are putting yourself through is affecting only one person.
Y.O.U.
He's going to react to your pictures in his own way no matter what you do, so the best thing you can do for yourself is try to relax & wait to see what happens & STOP WORRYING ABOUT IT! ;-)

Answer 2

dont compare yourself to anyone.... your special because your you..... what makes u think this model x girlfriend didnt cheat on him.. just because shes model material doesnt make her a good person on the inside... you to him will be the whole package.... and I seen them my space girls... and to me them girls are skanky..lol... all they want is attention with hardly no clothes on with sexual poses... not good to me... you be yourself and im sure he will like you for you...