So, I have a husband and boyfriend and I really enjoy other men (and women) who flirt with me. I love being the center of attention. I can't help myself. Am I alone in this?
2007-03-13 16:21:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Flirting is such a wonderful thing n u cant be helped if you always get the center of attention. You're a kool girl, lets hook up
2007-03-13 16:26:36 · answer #1 · answered by ¿¿¿jeff??? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you most certainly are not. Many people find themselves attracted to other people than their husband/significant other. I know that I often flirt with others even when I'm in a serious relationship. What you may need to be asking, though, is WHY you feel the urge to get attention from so many others. Are you happy in your marriage? Is it just flirting, or something more? Be cautious of the possible consequences of cheating. I don't see anything wrong unless it is more than harmless flirting.
2007-03-13 23:26:27 · answer #2 · answered by emmabee2203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you like being the center of attention, but you have to think of your husbands feelings in this, when you said "I do" you said them to him and no one ells. Your temporary thing with your BF is only going to hurt your man and if you want to be the center of attention then through parties at your house where people can come and say how nice it is and so forth. But you shouldn't do that to you husband.
2007-03-13 23:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by szlightning31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you have a deficiency in you personality that you are trying to fill inappropriately. Loose the boyfriend, confess to you husband and seek treatment. Otherwise you are heading for a train wreak and a lot of innocent people ending up badly damaged by your actions. You can help yourself if you want to.
2007-03-13 23:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... i love attention too...i love it when guys flirt with me. Its kinda like a rush you get. my biggest regret is that i let that same attention get the best of me and i got strong feelings for a guy while i was with my boyfriend of 5 years. he found out and broke up with me. Now i b now know that no amount of attention is worth losing someone so special.
2007-03-13 23:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by bellabell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like it when other guys (and only guys) flirt with me but only when I'm single. When I have a boyfriend (and a husband?? that's just wrong..) then it becomes a no no
2007-03-13 23:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by ALL SMILES :D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nopes. there's people like that too. perhaps you feel insecure and out of place and sometimes needed more of this and that and eg, your husband can't fulfil it for you thus thats where you seek from other people. or maybe you're just wanna have some fun and thrill in life.
2007-03-13 23:25:56 · answer #7 · answered by miemie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No look at every girl on a street corner they probably feel the same way...
they're screwing another guy while their pimp is at home making all the money
2007-03-13 23:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Peacen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, do you really need a husband and an boyfriend? learn to share
2007-03-13 23:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah ... that's perfectly fine when a woman does that, but if a man does it he's a dirty cheating jerk.
Seriously, it's NOT okay. And yeah, your alone with that.
2007-03-13 23:24:26 · answer #10 · answered by Joseph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋