Someone I've been crushing on for more than a year has now said he is "confused". We had a thing for eachother last year, and then I got a boyfriend. Now me and my boyfriend are on the rocks, and I don't know what it means when he told me he is confused,but he still does like ma as a friend, and more.
2007-03-13 16:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should i just back off of my crush, or say near just in case?
2007-03-13 16:21:32 · update #1
That could mean a lot of things. Maybe he has a thing for another girl and he can't make up his mind. Maybe he's not sure if his feelings for you are lust or if he really likes you for who you are. Maybe he had his heart broken before and he's afraid of having it broken again. Maybe he's intimidated by your boyfriend or parents. Maybe he's confused about his own sexuality.
I'd stay near just in case.
2007-03-13 16:27:05 · answer #1 · answered by Lexy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he says he is confused that means he is just that. Guys always mean what they say when they tell a woman they are confused. That is not something a guy will admit to anyone otherwise generally speaking. If I were you I'd keep your Crush around and explore that possibility and if your confused friend can't get it together wquick enough just move on. That is life. And sorry to all the confused guys out there but school of hard knocks and all that. I learned the hard way and so should you. A woman has to do what is right for her as much as a guy has to. Being confused usually means things are not right for you anyways and either you or the person you are with needs to develop more before things can be right anyhow. Wrong place wrong time = move on...
2007-03-13 16:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my boyfriend told me that he was confused like 3weeks ago... we still was talkin but it wasnt the same... out of like 1week i jus decided 2 give up and it only took me 1day 2 stop talkin him 2 make him want me back... trust me it was 2 cute cause he was like why u not talkin 2 me & i thought we was still friends and all this i was like i thought u was confused about us... so i played hard for a few days but i jus gave in & now we are back 2gether... wow ~~ i was so happy!!
2007-03-13 16:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice 2 u gurl is that it seems as if he doesnt know what he wants right now, maybe he doesnt want 2 get in a relationship right now maybe he juss wants 2 play the field but as for u dont hang around, move on , love will find u!!!
2007-03-13 16:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by BeAuTiFuL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused usually means.. " I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I don't want you". I would recommend just being friends with him..
2007-03-13 16:24:31 · answer #5 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he meant that he is not sure if he can be your bf as he is afraid of your present bf. He is afraid that there would be trouble and if you can assure him, he might not be so "confused". Hope that helps.
2007-03-13 16:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he's trying to take the easy way out of telling you what his true emotions are.
2007-03-13 16:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by Nunya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why were you crushing him? Do you weigh more than him?Seriously....It means he already is being crushed by someone else.
2007-03-13 16:25:54 · answer #8 · answered by Iceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is confused, and is unsure of whether he likes you or not [in that special way]
2007-03-13 16:24:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He confused and doesn't know if he truly likes you
2007-03-13 16:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Peacen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋