I weight about 205 and am 5 foot 10. He is muscular and weighs 190 and is 6 foot 1. Is that bad?
2007-03-13 16:20:07 · 44 answers · asked by Elle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you might want to go to the gym . if you are healthy and living healthy then there's no problem at all . is he concerned about this or just you >
2007-03-13 16:22:35 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im going to give you only the truth. I am exactly your height but I weigh 200. Its all in the middle for me dear. I will say tho, its not good for us to be passed the 200 mark at our height. He may like you for whatever you look like. However, you are asking this question because you know your not supposed to be 205. Trust me, I know. When I hit 200, I freaked. Everyone keeps telling me your tall you carry it well. Well, they never seen me naked. I have seen me naked, and its not pretty. Im not sure where you are located. If the weather is getting nice now. Start walking. Thats what I do when its nice out. I don't know what you do in your spare time, you could have muscle to? Muscle weighs more then fat. If your not doing anything tho, its pretty much just fat. Yes, the extra fat is bad. Its not good for our health. Thats what the propaganda tells us anyhow. If your keeping busy tho and not a couch potato. Be happy of who you are. If you are sitting on the couch or laying in bed all the time tho, GET UP AND MOVE.
P.S. Our ideal weight for our height is supposed to be no more then 155. Not sure if they account muscle with that. All the best.
2007-03-13 16:39:17 · answer #2 · answered by hbuckmeister 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the only reason you are asking this is because you are a little self conscious about your weight. Are you? If you are then girl being 205 at 5'10 is not bad. If you feel self conscious then maybe it would make you feel better to exercise for about 20 minutes at least 3 times a week. There is a website www.free-online-health.com and it will give you tips of diet and exercise plans that are safe and healthy. It may help. I use it because I am about 160 and only 5'1. I am technically over weight but I am in great shape and I feel very comfortable with myself. If you are not self conscious then you are perfectly fine with your weight. Your boyfriend should accept you the way you are and if he doesn't then it's his loss... good luck
2007-03-13 16:33:13 · answer #3 · answered by smileygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for your height and you are a woman, you should be about 150 lbs so you are 55 lbs overweight. He is the right weight at 190. So what does that tell you? You need to go on a very strict diet not only because you are overweight but because healthwise, it is very bad. Try Weight Watchers.
2007-03-13 16:25:45 · answer #4 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, he's your BOYFRIEND. He obviously found you attractive to ask you out in the first place, and to presumably stay with you for long enough that you feel comfortable calling him your boyfriend on the internet. You should look past your external appearance, as he may be doing, to find the beautiful personality you have deep within you.
If you are still concerned about your weight (but for purely medical rather than physical reasons), then consider dieting or consulting with your doctor or health care professional (but you must be doing something right already!! :D)
Good luck and hope this helps you!! :D
2007-03-13 16:32:58 · answer #5 · answered by piecrumz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
5 "10 and your 205 pounds. Um im thinking you needa do some excersize. im 5 "11 and about 189 pounds although i am muscular.
2007-03-13 16:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one can answer that, but you and your boyfriend. If he is comfortable with it, that is all that counts. You don't seem to be to over weigh at 5' 10'.....stop worrying and enjoy him being your boyfriend. If he disliked your weight he would not be around.
2007-03-13 16:26:43 · answer #7 · answered by Nita K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. You proabably have a nice figure, based on your description.. My girl's 5'1 1/2'' and weighs 195, and she's gorgeous with amazing curves. I'm 5'5" and weigh 175, and i've got a nice tone to me.
2007-03-13 16:28:00 · answer #8 · answered by Danny K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only people who can answer that question is you and your friend. If either of you have a problem with it, then there is a problem. This type problem is better to know about it sooner than later - believe me. It's better to work it out as soon as possible and ignoring it is not a solution -
2007-03-13 16:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Goodmomma1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that is a big enough difference to worry about. You are talking about 15 pounds. If you are still worried, Spring time is here...get out and walk. Do it for yourself not anyone else. You didn't state if he liked you as you are, I bet he does. Best tip? Love yourself :o)
2007-03-13 16:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it is a bad thing. If he really likes you for the person you are it isn't going to make any difference. I have always been heavy all my life and believe me if someone really cares about you they aren't going to worry about a few pounds. You are still going to be sexy and attractive to them.
2007-03-13 16:29:31 · answer #11 · answered by LadyBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋