Should a man tell a woman when her breasts are exposed?

Question

I was in a check out line. The yong woman behind the counter was a friendly acquaintance. She is well-endowed and was wearing a low-cut top. The customer in frojnt of me was elderly, so she walked around in front of her cart and was helping her unload her items. She was standing directly in front of me, bending, and I could see almost her enitre breasts. I said nothing. In this case should a man tell her she is exposed in case she may not know it? Or do I assume she is aware of it and just enjoy it? Once a friend of mine was exposing herself and I took her aside later and told her she may want to be careful when wearing that top. She took it well.

Answer 1

Why in the world would you subject yourself to the possible headaches? She can claim you were harassing her, degrading her by looking at her breasts, that you were leering at her, or any number of different charges. She might totally believe it too. You MUST be a perve if you were looking at her breasts, you horrible dog. If she calls you a perve and calls the police, you could lose your job, your family, everything, just by the accusation alone; and we (guys) all know that in a situation like this, you are 100% guilty until you prove yourself innocent. Think it's far fetched or outlandish? Right. Read the papers. It happens all the time, Duke Lacrosse.

Even if only 1:10,000 women would actually DO something like that, why would you take the chance? Sneak a peek and get the hell out of there as fast as possible.

Answer 2

Admittedly this is difficult. You will be looked at suspiciously. That is if you have not looked at them how would you know these are exposed to your view. So approached her and tell her 'I am sorry to say you need to cover up or your breasts are exposing.' Generally, most often, the response will be a immediate withdrawal or cover up. But if no change or right response is shown, this is a case of intentional show off. As a gentleman avoid her completely as if she is transparent. Or if you can be naughty look into her straight to shy her to keep her breasts covered.

Answer 3

You can, tactfully. Speaking from experience, though, if my breasts are exposed, it's because I want them to be.... I am fully aware of it! For Pete's sake, if you have large breasts and wear a low-cut top, somebody's going to get at least a peek! God I love being a woman! lol

Answer 4

Believe me when a women gets dressed she is very aware what she wants to show and not show. This includes panties and shorts, skirts and tops. Besides most guys are enjoying this and the women know it. They like the attention and to see your reaction rather it be eyes bulging or slobbering all over yourself. When a women gets dressed up she knows if she going to get laid. When a guy get dressed he has no Idea if he is.

Answer 5

I think you risk being attacked, called a pervert, they might scream about molestation.

Ignore Madame Two Hung Low, and let a woman tell her. It may be the "look" she's attempting to achieve.

Answer 6

Remind her with a help of a lady. Example, when you saw a lady accidently exposed her body part while sitting in a coffee shop, u may ask a waitress to remind her. I'm sure both of them will be grateful of your gentlemeness.

Answer 7

Tell her tastefully. Women don't always realize their blouse is gaping open or hanging too loosely, etc. Just an "Umm", and a point to the area gets the message across.

Answer 8

Yes. A man should tell a woman that her breast is out. When doing so, be as polite as possible because she might take it to be offensive or she might think that you like it. That's just my opinion.

Answer 9

Yes, politely like you said you did before, in case she does not know. Also to avoid further embarrassment for her.

Answer 10

I would say tell her politely or throw mardi gras beads.

Totally a win/win here.