i have a boyfriend.. and he like to have sex with me but im not yet prepared.. i told him already and he understand my situation.. what do u think? should i do it or not yet.. im 16.. and if u think that i should do it can u pls give me some tips.. whooaa!!
2007-03-13 16:13:34 · 34 answers · asked by _-rei-_ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you don't think it's right, don't do it! Don't let anyone talk you in to it. If he puts you in uncomfortable positions like that, explain to him that you will not do that stuff. and don't let him push you into it or the relationship is over!
2007-03-13 16:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by Kylie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't ready then don't have sex. You're only 16 years old, you still have so much time...you'll meet other guys, date other guys, love other guys more. so if you have sex now, you might regret it later. This is coming from soemone who had sex when she was just 15 with a guy she didn't really love and let me tell you...i was NOT ready. Don't let the pressure get to you...you'll regret it later on when you find the real love of your life. And if this guy is the love of your life, then he'll understand if you aren't ready and want to wait. Good Luck.
2007-03-13 16:22:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please whatever you do don't listen to any man that tells you that if you love him you would give it up. I applaud you for keeping your virginity and don't let it go until you are 100% ready to do so. I'm sure that there will be men trying everything that they can to get some but stick to your guns. If a man really loves and respects you then it should not be too much of a problem for him to wait until you're ready and not a minute sooner. Good luck
2007-03-13 16:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not sure, then you are not ready yet... When you are ready you will be sure... As for tips when you are ready just follow your animal urges with the slight difference of maybe using some kind of protection so you don't become a mother before you are ready, or maybe get some kind of nasty little disease... Your animal instincts will guide you better than any lessons or tips.
2007-03-13 16:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Malcolm L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NO!
even if you think you're ready if he thinks you're ready DONT DO IT!
im gonna sound like a parent now but think about it would you really like to have a child at 16?
try finishing high school and/or college
2007-03-13 16:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by SamC-akaCaysynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when you are ready to have sex, don't let anyone tell you other wise. The other most important thing to remember is always use protection, no matter what your partner says protect yourself from all the things that can go wrong.
2007-03-13 16:17:45 · answer #6 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world is at your feet darling. You are very young and and have not seen the world yet. My advise is: be cool and stay away from sex. You might not know this but when the man of your life comes to you, he will love you more for it. So it is up to you. Can you take up the challenge?
2007-03-13 16:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i can tell you this. if you ever want to get married what will you have to give to your husband? for a guy to hold it it just means he can wait. but for a woman it's more pf a purity thing. but i think you should keep it. trust me. he could be your best or he could be your worst (a.k.a. minute man) but i would only suggest outter course. basically messing around but wothout actually having sex. play sex can be just as fun and you can kee your virginity.
2007-03-13 16:24:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definitley should NOT! You will know when you are ready and if you do it before you are, you will regret it for the rest of your life!! If he really loves and cares about you than he will wait around until you are ready. It will cause alot more emotioal damage than you think. Just wait it out, its worth it ;)
2007-03-13 16:24:07 · answer #9 · answered by princessamber_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have to ask if the moments right or not then u shouldn't do it... Something like that is not planned or made for a person it happens... Do do it to regret it.. .Do it cause you know it feels right and that's the person you feel is special enough to give it to. If you still don't know what to do after you read this ask your self... Does this feel right!?!
2007-03-13 16:20:04 · answer #10 · answered by Mimi B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do it. until you are completely ready i would not do it. he should respect that to. dont feel obligated just because he is ready and wants to. the time will come when its right for you but like you said your not yet prepared. i would wait. your young you will have plenty of time in the future for that stuff.
2007-03-13 16:18:42 · answer #11 · answered by sunshine24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋