I know that there are a lot of girls (mainly younger ones) out there who are messed up and choose to date "Bad Boys" (the egoistic morans who tend to treat girls that they date like s***) over "Nice Guys" (the sensitive guys who acutally care about the feelings of others). What I don't understand is why these girls consider guys who are overbearing, obsessive, too sensitive, insecure, "creepy", and "hopeless romantics" as Nice Guys. These guys ARE NOT Nice Guys at all. They are either social outcasts who always have a negative attitude about life or they are gay. I think that these are really the types of guys that many girls are talking about when they say that they don't like nice guys. A real nice guy doesn't have any of those characteristics. Rather he is emotionally stable, independent, caring (but not overbearing), and responsible. So why do many girls mistake these guys as being the creepy and overbearing type, when it's really the OTHER guys that they don't like?
2007-03-13 16:13:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are morons~
2007-03-13 16:21:37 · answer #1 · answered by Zorro 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think the answer is that we are simply so desparate for a nice guy that we end up settling for these other types. Personally, I've encountered MANY "hopeless romantics", but never stay with them for long because they are too overwhelming to handle. We end up not really having a choice, though. Truly, the majority of guys fall into either the self-serving jerk category or insecure-obsessive-outcast one. We misjudge the creepy ones simply because we long for the real nice guys so much, we will settle for the closest thing to that. Hope this helps!
2007-03-13 23:18:43 · answer #2 · answered by emmabee2203 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand where you're coming from man. I'm 30 years old, never been married and have no kids and guess what still single. I, like yourself do all of the things that a gentleman is supposed to do but for some reason I still finish last. Not all women, but a lot of them are still hung up on the bad guys. You know the ones that cheat on their woman, hit their woman, lie to their woman etc. But It's like this those woman that have not figured it out yet are still trying to figure themselves out. I do all I can to use the things that were taught to me by my mother and try to prove to the women of the world that chivalry is not dead.
The women that choose these "bad guys" end up regreting their descion and then and only then do they want to explore what the good guys have to offer. Sooner or later she'll come to her senses and realize what she's been missing this whole time. That is if it's not too late.
Whatever you do keep representing for us good guys. Good luck
2007-03-13 23:21:05 · answer #3 · answered by ltwatkins77 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I went through the "bad boy" stage I was looking for anyone that didn't remind me of my dad. I saw how he was with my mother and I wanted someone different. Once I grew up a little I realized that it was the nice guy I wanted to be with. These girls will realize it too. Just give them a little while to grow up and notice that the bad boys will only break their hearts and then you can swoop in and save them.
2007-03-13 23:20:10 · answer #4 · answered by Brandy S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a very interesting point. You should use that in conversation around girls and see what they think. They just might be impressed at your wit.
As for the mean guys, the answer is simple. Girls are curious about sex as much as guys are. And nice guys don't put out, cause they don't know how to.
Cheers:)
2007-03-13 23:19:27 · answer #5 · answered by Julian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's the excuse girls like to make when they're asked why they prefer the 'bad boy' over the 'good boy', even though they probably know it's wrong.
I personally think 'good boys' are way hotter. Overly cocky guys make me feel insuperior and weak. So for any good guys out there who are considering 'going bad' in order to get more girls, for the love of god, don't.
2007-03-13 23:20:07 · answer #6 · answered by Tess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know, but women can't help to want to fix a guy. They want to change him. They can't stand nice guys because it's too easy and nice guys are boring and too predictable. They will wait on you hand and foot and do whatever they are told. Women want danger and excitement. Some nice guys can become stalkers! I've had one. Also, bad boys are used to women going after them so they don't get as depressed as quickly as nice guys do. It all depends on the guy.
2007-03-13 23:53:37 · answer #7 · answered by asiansmile 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i dont know but nice guys are way better than bad boys thats all i got to say and i ask myself the same question (not every girl is the same)
2007-03-13 23:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by lala 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They don't want a truly good guy..They find they have more to talk about with their girlfriends if they're in a bad relationship. Besides that it would lead to resentment from their girlfriends if they were constantly telling them how great their guy was.Not only that one of them might try to steal him from her..Think about it....
2007-03-13 23:23:36 · answer #9 · answered by Iceman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What can I say...I fall for the bad boys everytime, because they know how to have a good time
2007-03-13 23:18:46 · answer #10 · answered by Peacen 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
most gurls judge guys based on her previous relationship. If she has been hurt she most likely will think all guys will hurt her or treat her like he previous did...
2007-03-13 23:18:40 · answer #11 · answered by da_love _doc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋