when we're like making out & stuff he is so gentle. he has been aggressive before but he very rarely does it. it totally turns me on when he does & i've told him that before. I want him to push me up against a wall and kiss me or jump on top of me and make out with me. how do i get him to be more aggressive??
2007-03-13 15:56:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow, all I can say is that I wish there were more girls like you out there, I totally find that a major turn on. Its kinda funny though, because my ex-girlfriend from a couple years ago asked me to do the same thing (I was only 15 at the time). The thing was, I thought I was being aggressive, but not quite as much as she would have liked. Yes, you've told him you like it when he's aggressive, but tell him how aggressive. Tell him you want him to "push you up against the wall and kiss you" Or jump on top of you. If he still doesn't get it, show him by example.
2007-03-13 16:02:17 · answer #1 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like you already stated.. You told him and he is still gentle. That's about all you handoIt sounds like you are dating a gentleman. Aggressive behavior can get out of hand sometimes.. He sounds wise to take it slow..
2007-03-13 23:01:38 · answer #2 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to lead him there. You need to be a little aggressive with him, then give him positive feedback (use your imagination) when he picks up on your cues.
He's not being tender because he's weak, he's being tender because he cares for you and wants to treat you kindly. So, show him what you want....
Best of luck!
2007-03-13 23:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by taotedan 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i like it that way to. you jsut have to be more oopen. but you als o got to realize he may not like it that way. you just have to find a middle ground. maybe he could be a little more aggressive but maybe not as much as you like but with what hes comfortable with. or you can have times that hes aggressive and then other times where its the way he likes it. just talk to him and see what you can do about it. see what he likes and the way he likes it. then find a middle ground.
2007-03-13 23:01:54 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine24 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So you have told him some how I think you were being subtle or something be direct he really likes you and will give you what you need if you make him get the drift. Guys can be thick some times so please make it obvious.
2007-03-13 23:03:16 · answer #5 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get him turned on. more foreplay. then let him know that you like him to be aggressive.
2007-03-13 23:00:12 · answer #6 · answered by bubba 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why dont you consider confiding in him and telling him that what you would like him to do....there is nothing better than honesty in a relationship
2007-03-13 22:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by JOANclay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Does he know that your yahoo screen name is dirty little secret? Why don't you give him some more hints about your wild side.
2007-03-13 23:01:23 · answer #8 · answered by Julian 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell him to get more agressive and yuoull like it more. He will then get "
all up in your goodies"
2007-03-13 22:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by G-Uniter 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you could be more aggressive.
2007-03-13 22:58:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋