i hate him.....wat can i do right now? i'm so scared n stress...
why he did this to me? i love him,but this is not wat i want..
i fell like i wanna kill him..plezz someone help me!!
2007-03-13 15:55:46 · 16 answers · asked by anna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
CALM DOWN.
You lost control with a guy during a sensitive time. You didn't do anything wrong. HE didn't either because I'm sure you both were in the moment and not thinking clearly.
DON'T hate. You BOTH weren't ready, but it doesn't make you filthy or anything. It isn't justified by saying it's normal, but as long as it was 'safe', then use it as a lesson to be careful in the future instead of using it to beat yourself up. Move on if the guy is a jerk.
Franklin
2007-03-13 16:02:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah... another satisfied customer.
Before breaking out the shotgun, get an AIDS test. Then get a Q-tip swab and a baggie and go over to him. Then ask him for a cheek swab sample, just in case he's a new father and you have to prove it with a DNA test.
Tell him that you are waiting on the AIDS test results And that when you have the results back, you will show them to him.
Tell him what he did to you. Tell him you had always wanted this first time to be special. Well, it is, but not the way you expected it to be.
AND, that with you being only 13 this state sees that as rape, whether you consented or not.
Then go talk to your mother, or a school nurse, or both.
2007-03-13 23:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mean you were raped don't you? If you had sex against your will, you were raped. There is a thin line between love and hate and you shouldn't love him if he forced himself on you when he knew you were a virgin. Now, my suggestion is to go to a OB/GYN doctor and get an examination to make sure you are not pregnant. You do not have to tell your Mother if you don't want to. I don't know your situation. You just go to the doctor to get checked out. Then I would seriously consider breaking off with this clown and tell him that you are very unhappy and upset that he forced himself on you and that you lost your virginity and you are breaking off with him. He is not a good guy dear girl, to me he is a creep. Stay away from him and don't allow him in your life anymore. If he is over 21 and you are under 18, he could be brought up on charges of statutory rape. If this is the case, then I would tell your Mother and let her take it from there. Try to gather your strength and get it together and stay calm. You are still you, that didn't change, but under any circumstances would I let this creep into my life anymore.
2007-03-13 23:08:02 · answer #3 · answered by cardgirl2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the question? If u mean you let him take your virginity and you regret it...dont regret anything. It only makes things worse. One day it wont even matter who took your virginity unless it is the one u end up being with till death do you part. Butt really, next time think ahead to the consequences and think through decisions fully, but its over and done, nothing can be done now. Dont beat yourself up.
Hope I helped!
2007-03-13 23:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok first of take a deep breath. now think about what u did. do u believe it was the right time? if so then its ok but if not then u need to think about. theres no way to get a new virginity but God forgives u of all ur sins and if u pray to him n ask for forgivness everything will be okay. God is one man who will neva hurt u n he is always with u.
2007-03-13 23:02:06 · answer #5 · answered by latinchick1490 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing that you can do about it now, but you do have the choice to not do it again, especially if this is not someone you really care about. Remember that it takes to and if he did not force you then it is not fair to put all the blame on him. If he did force you then you need to report it to someone immediately.
2007-03-13 23:02:07 · answer #6 · answered by Broken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity too with someone who seduced me into it. Of course, ultimately it was my choice and I have to live with it. Anyways, if you really didn't want to lose your virginity... did he rape you? If so, this is very serious. He should understand how you feel and respect you if he loves you. Be careful with this guy.
2007-03-13 23:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by Dysire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry, as I read this im so upset at the boy that took advantage of you... did he rape you? he had no rights taking it away from you when you didnt want him to... i know ur scared.. but if u feel violated and know its date rape....talk to ur mother or school councelor.... do not be alone with this guy again and dont talk to him.... dont make the mistake of listening to him say he loves you.. he just wants to get out of this situation that he took advantage of you... im so sorry......
2007-03-14 00:06:31 · answer #8 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all can say is move on. forget about that looser. i say you really don't loose your virginity until you have mad love to the person you love. so i say you never lost it. don't do n e thing that would hurt n e one because you would be stooping to his level.i think you should leave him. find someone who would respect your decisions.
jr93657
2007-03-14 00:20:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm...you definatly need to give more info...cuz we dont know exactly what's goin' on here...and if you want us to help you need to quit venting your emotions and give some information...
2007-03-13 23:08:43 · answer #10 · answered by *Gina* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋