hey, im in highschool and currently 16. his in college currently 20. i live in this state, he lives in that state. we are so far but so close to each other. we love each other uncontionally. we met over "myspace". known eachother for over a year and a half. been going out for 4 months. i left my ex for him. i risked see and visiting him. we talked on the phone 24/7. chat and text. when we can. and we also see each other on webcams. he tells me im his first girl he loves. when im with him, he holds me just right, kisses me so nice. looking in his eyes i can see pure love. i cant help but miss him every minute. but why is everyone telling me bad things? that he is cheating on me? that i should find someone local? that he isnt worth it? why are my bestfriends happy when i told them i broke up with him, when really i didnt? is this relationship really bad as it seems? i know i trust him, isnt a good relationship about trust? can someone share the same exprience with me? tell me how it is?
2007-03-13 15:50:51 · 12 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why is everyone one so negative? should i give in and listen to them? can someone out there that maybe has the same exprience tell me what i should do? im really down about this. it sucks when everyone around doesnt want you to be with someone that truely makes me happy...
2007-03-13 15:52:15 · update #1
if he is using me why make me meet his mom? his family? he talks to his mom about me. he tells his friends how he feels about me. i gave him a ring to wear. and he does wear it. he tells me he wants to marry me. he even tells his friends. is he just a good lair? tell me please. i just dont want a heart ache.
2007-03-13 16:00:30 · update #2
Look, why not just be happy with what you have and keep it to yourself? Maybe your friends are jealous, maybe they've been burned in a long distance thing and want to spare you, but the point is--if you weren't seeking their approval, their comments wouldn't matter to you. Why do you care what they think? You will find 100% support very little in the real world. You have to learn to just navigate your own way, follow your own heart and not listen to what other people are saying or take what they say with a grain of salt.
2007-03-13 15:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Curious, I am 19 and have a guy that is 25 years old in australia we all so met online sorry not "myspace” but we have shared the same feeling for each other as you share with him. No I have never gone to see him but we will soon. I think that you should continue with this and when you are 18 and he is 22 and if you still love each other like you do now then god bless. But if not then you well all ways have a good friend that knows you inside and out.
2007-03-13 23:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by szlightning31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter what all those other people think, now does it ? If you two want to have a relationship, no matter the distance between you...then that's what you need to do because it's want y'all want, right ? Obviously you do...
So, keep on doing what you're doing and take things slowly because you are young. You're only 16 and this is probably why these people are so negative. They know that you're just so young and don't want you to be hurt. If you feel you have something real, then go with it until time proves you wrong (hopefully not). Otherwise, you'll always wonder "what if ?"
2007-03-13 22:59:46 · answer #3 · answered by BRAT 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you get into this relationship in haste? Be careful too because he is older than you. From what I've read, this relationship seems to be infatuation since you both met online and the fact that you both don't know when to cut it. Now, I don't know how he approached you about being in a relationship or how serious it truly is, but just be aware and careful of his intentions. Be safe.
2007-03-13 22:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by Dysire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think your friends are worried about you because this guy may be using you. You should never trust internet to get to know someone but i dont think you should break this friendship. Maybe you say can we take a break, date a new guy and maybe try to forget, if you cant, follow your heart and do what you think is right. good luck
2007-03-13 22:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Hannah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people don't want to see you hurt... you are still young and have a lot to look forward to... you will be meeting different people when you go to college, when you travel or whatever you choose to do... but the age different you have to consider.. he is experienced... you really don't know what he is up to... don't be naive, don't be gullible... listen to those who cares... don't grow up so fast...enjoy your high school life... plan for what is ahead... also myspace is not the best way to meet people for a long term relationship... don't you watch DATELINE... if you don't, you should and you will know what i mean... take care of yourself
2007-03-13 22:59:00 · answer #6 · answered by lala15 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u may be living in this fantasy world... nothing is perfect.... I do feel u should find someone local and ur age...he only tells you what he wants to.. u dont see him on a daily basis... hes too old for you... its illegal if ur parents tell the authorities....its sagatory rape... if hes that great of a guy wait till ur 18....
2007-03-13 23:06:19 · answer #7 · answered by gina B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what you want to do dont do something because of what your friends think if you really like him and believe hes a good guy then stay with him your friends dont even know wh o he is and they are just looking out for you but they need to give you alittle space
2007-03-13 22:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Beccaa0806 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The World is just cold like that...but you judge yourself...and If you really do love him...stay with him and dont let other people care who you want to be with..they need to butt out
2007-03-13 22:58:37 · answer #9 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know what you mean. say SCREW THE REST OF THE WORLD. you only live once and you dont need to listen and stress about the lil things. i know this aint lil but it is up to you. dont think about pleasin others just please urself. i used to be ppl pleaser and i got so depressed i tried to commit suicide a lot. tell others to support you or support their tenny shoes and start walkin cause you dont need them. if they were your true friends they would stand behind you no mater wat and not stan ON you
good luck
2007-03-13 22:59:39 · answer #10 · answered by Proud Mommy!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋