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um what is it about his lifestyle? what is he a swinger? u need ta explain more for us..thanx

2007-03-13 15:53:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Hi!!

I congratulate you for that, Daniela!!!!

Look if his lifestyle doesn't appeal to you, and you think it is more of a burden rather than happiness, look the other way pick up and go!!!

There is a reason why you took that decision in the first place!!!! Trust your instincts, there is something telling you "DANGER"!!!!!! "RED ALERT"!!!!

Don't look back on that decision, probably this is the best decision you had made in your entire whole life!!!!!!

Remember this,"ONE GOOD THING, DOESN'T MAKE EVERYTHING GOOD"!!!!!

Move on, at least you know you are save and don't have to live anxious about the fast track, pace of an unknown life.

Be proud of yourself!!!!! And considered yourself one of the lucky ones!!!! That got out on time and got to tell all about it!!!

Don't even give it another thought!!! If you didn't want to think about it at the time you took the decision, why then you will waste your time on something that you and me know very well it was NOT what you deserve???

KEEP ON WITH YOUR LIFE, GOD BLESS YOU

A.Z.

2007-03-13 23:03:42 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 1 0

You had a reason, and it was what was right for you. It doesn't mean you won't grieve. If friendship is possible, try it. Think of him as a brother and after time you'll feel better, it stinks, but you will be happy one day. Heartbreak is rough, but stick to your reasons because even going back oour choice wouldn't produce the good relationship you'd want as a couple. The reason would still be there. Take care.

2007-03-13 22:55:56 · answer #3 · answered by sarah jeanna 1 · 0 0

stick with your instincts. Why did you deny him in the first place? Was it a good enough reason? Think of the long run, is this the kind of guy you would want to be with forever? Is he willing to sacrifice this lifestyle for you? Ultimately you can't let your feelings of missing him take a hold of you if your instincts tell you no.

2007-03-13 22:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by pyroman162 2 · 1 0

Well if you miss him it must mean somthing.. is there a way you can both come to an agreement to make his lifestyle easier for the two of you, you just have to look at what makes you happy and if you think you can look past his lifestyle and you will still be happy go for it!!
Good luck with it!

2007-03-13 22:54:26 · answer #5 · answered by allfunandgames24 1 · 0 0

Nothing,
if you told this to him it is not fair to then complicate things by bringing in the whole i miss you thing. You let him go due to his lifestyle, so those lonely demons are your to deal with.

Sorry to say this but like him you made your bed and now you must lie in it.
Its just selfish to think otherwise.

2007-03-13 22:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by chellebelle 2 · 0 0

if his life style was bad enough to have you give him the choice of life style or me.then its the "bad boy" bit you are missing...................

Get out and about but whatever you do dont go back to him, he may be really nice and all BUT you really dont want your life style or life or your future children's lives involved in some one that was once not good enough for you..................he still is not...............

Regards and WELL DONE for being brave enough to know you are worth more than he was offering.

2007-03-13 22:54:51 · answer #7 · answered by candy g 7 · 0 0

You should go after him. Find him and tell him that you think you made a big mistake by telling him no. Hopefully you're not too late and he'll except your offer.

2007-03-13 22:59:53 · answer #8 · answered by lollypop3 2 · 0 0

What you should do is talk to him, tell him how you feel about his lifestyle, if he loves you and misses you too he will change it to be with you.

2007-03-13 22:54:30 · answer #9 · answered by april h 2 · 0 0

Stick to your guns!!! Don't compromise what you want, if you do he will always control you. You will find the perfect match, just keep looking!

2007-03-13 22:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by Broken 2 · 1 0

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