My and boyfriend and I are on a break. I know if its ment to be it will work out, but what can I do thats a little "extra" to get this relationship back b/c i feel like this relationship is the right thing to do.
**I am not bothering him at all, not calling, texting, or anything like that, so just what can I do to make him think about this relationship in a more optimistic way??
2007-03-13 15:49:26 · 8 answers · asked by princessamber_89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Write him a heartfelt letter. Hand deliver it. In the letter, tell him exactly how you feel, and how much he means to you. Request that he call you back within a certain time period to discuss things, or else you'll consider it over, and move on with your life. That's what I'd do if I were you. Because the thing is, you must feel as though your entire world is in turmoil right now because this thing is unsettled. You won't feel better until it's settled, so start laying out the framework for creating a solution.
Best of luck!
2007-03-13 15:55:46 · answer #1 · answered by taotedan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly sweetie just leave it alone. I know it hurts to hear this, and it hurts to write this, but if its truely ment to be he'll be back. It may take a while. Hang in there.
2007-03-13 16:12:26 · answer #2 · answered by Heather Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitly don't push it. Guys like to play with girls who want them too much...(yes, even the nice ones) Just send him a card in the mail,keep it light and sweet-just so he'll have some happy thoughts about you.
hope it works
2007-03-13 15:56:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him just to "talk". Nothing pushy.. Just talk.. If done right, he will be thinking about you long after you hang up the phone. Good luck!
2007-03-13 15:53:33 · answer #4 · answered by BigWashSr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always say if you let them go and let them think about your relationship. If they come back it is meant to be, if they don't it wasn't meant to be in the first place.
2007-03-13 15:52:41 · answer #5 · answered by april h 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him and say how u really feel i think thats always the best solution
2007-03-13 15:52:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have contact. He WILL contact you again....To break up with you...Sorry,but that's probably going to be the end result.
2007-03-13 15:54:56 · answer #7 · answered by Iceman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leave it alone... let time take its course.. like you said "if it was meant to be it would work out"
2007-03-13 15:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by lala15 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋