umm anyone????

Question

ok my friend likes this guy and ive been trying to hook them up and now ive spent slot of time with him and not realize why she likes him cuz now i do and i want to go out with him and yesterday we kinda made out and got ai little touchy (if you know what i mean) and i couldnt stop i like him so much i just coulndt stop and i feel so dumb and like a horrible friend but i want to tell her but i dont know how shell react (weve been best friends since first grade and nothing like this has ever happened before) i just want ot know should i tell her and if so how shouldi break it to her with out breaking her heart or our freindship??

Answer 1

I would tell her the truth immediately, because you don't want her finding out from someone else. I would apologize, and let her know how awful you feel, and that you will never do such a thing again. If she's really your true friend, she'll forgive you. Perhaps not right away, though, and that's something that you'll need to prepare yourself for. However, if she really cares about you, she'll eventually forgive you.

The really important thing, though, is to act as soon as possible. There's no other way to fix this except for honesty.

Best of luck.

Answer 2

if she's a good friend, she'd respect what you've done even if it hurts her because she never had claims on the guy in the first place. however, you should apologize for doing so and try to make it up to her. or if you want to be safe, then keep both relationships the same and just find someone else to like. but tell your friend about it.

Answer 3

sorry to say this but ive had the same situation except im a boy (so i hooked up with a girl i was trying to get for my friend) and when i confronted him he got pissed at me. this was in 6th grade and now im in 8th and i still havent talked to him yet. he completely ignores me and refuses to talk to me. keep it a secret.

Answer 4

Guys will come and go. Best friends will last a lifetime. Leave him alone.