My bf and I have been together for over a year. It was fantastic in the beginning but he then lied to me and ever since on and off he still lies. Mostly about the most pathetic thing. Any way last night when we were talking about our relationship he was falling asleep ( like he usually does when I am talking to him) and he just blurted out " It's a three way struggle". What the hell does that mean. I am just hoping he doesn't have someone else that wants him. Mind you he isn't good looking and he is 105kg. Please help.
2007-03-13 15:45:55 · 14 answers · asked by golden tigress 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lies is not a good sign so if you are unsure anymore break it off with him . you never know , the right guy might be waiting for you out there .....
2007-03-13 15:47:39 · answer #1 · answered by asphyxia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt have to be good looking to have a chick on the side, but that's probably not what he meant anyway. He might have been dreaming a little and blurted out something from his dream, or it's possible that he meant something about you, work, and school. Or you and 2 other things in his life.. his mother, or if he has a child.. money.. could be anything. Don't jump to conclusions, ask him about it instead.
2007-03-13 22:50:36 · answer #2 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand liars and cheats...unless you can tolerate that, then you can stay with him. Otherwise, dump him. IT's hard to let go due to the comfort of having someone by yourside,, but that someone shouldn't be him. There are plenty of others out there...everything happens for a reason. How can you find someone new and better if you don't let go of the old?
2007-03-14 20:50:26 · answer #3 · answered by C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he means three way struggle between you, him and the fish and chips.
Dump the chump. If he's falling asleep when you want to chat, he's not worth your time. Or your pillow space.
Get a cat.
2007-03-13 22:49:18 · answer #4 · answered by Munya Says: DUH! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, and I think you know this already, you shouldn't be with someone who is a habitual liar. Be strong and ditch him. Additionally, if you aren't attracted to him, then it isn't fair to him for you to stay with him.
Maybe he has a multiple personalities and he was talking to the other personality about the three of you. (Joking of course)
2007-03-13 22:57:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you stay with a liar. What can you trust that he says? That he cares for you? That he's true to you? Get out before you get hurt. Find a guy that's worth your attention.
2007-03-13 22:49:33 · answer #6 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I am not sure why you care if someone else likes your ugly, lying, disinterested boyfriend (a paraphrase of your words). I think you need to decide if you are still interested in him.
2007-03-13 22:50:15 · answer #7 · answered by hutmikttmuk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea what that means...maybe he was dreaming and it means nothing at all. why would you want to be with a liar? if someone lies about trivial b.s. they probably lie about more serious things too. get rid of him!
2007-03-13 22:50:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is not worth keeping around. First of all, he sounds like my first love, a patholigical lier and then doesnt respect you enough to listen to you when you are talking. hell, if he isnt even good looking.....say goodbye!!
2007-03-13 22:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by shelly63795 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if he is seeing someone else, u would be surprised who would want him. but why not just ask him about what he meant so u will know. if he is lying to u, that is disrespectful and even is its small things what else is he lying about.
2007-03-13 22:50:25 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋