how come guy friends try to kiss me or even get jealous when i talk or dance with other? they said they want somone to hungout with as friends. and we definitely are good friends to hangout.what else they want?? they want just sex friends? so no actual friendship between men and women?
2007-03-13 15:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by hippieflower 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you're attractive, they probably do want sex as well as a friendship. In some cases it works out just fine. It just depends if the both of you can handle it. From the looks of it they get jealous already so they probably wouldn't be able to handle a sexual relationship well.
2007-03-13 15:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes lets be friends works, if you are under the age of 14. Look at the way you hang out, are you walking into a nest of hormonal guys who use that as a pick up line? Guys to just be friends with will usually be better if they are your brother or friends brother, or someone you've known for a long time. Unfortunately, it sounds like you are someone who is looking
at a tough situation. Some guys want to be sex friends, and that's it. Where are you meetiing these guys? Might change the environment.
2007-03-13 22:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by sarah jeanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"so no actual friendship between men and women?" well obviously not with the men you know. I have a number of male friends. Some of them are married and I am friends with their wives as well. Sounds to me as these guys are far from being men, they haven't matured enough to allow a women to be just a friend, they have to try and claim "ownership" so if you want to hang out with them just as friends you're going to have to wait until they grow up.
2007-03-13 22:53:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are just protective of their really good friends who are girls. I have many guy friends who are very protective of me, it is just the way most NICE guys are. Guys love giving girls mixed signals, it it the thrill of the chase. Most guys don't know what they want. There can be actual healthy friendships between man and women who have no feelings for each other or good friendships between a single girl and a guy who has a girlfriend.
2007-03-13 22:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bobwhitegal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their only in it for one thing. i have tons of guy friends and there is no sex chemistry or anything like that between us. they probably see it as an easy way to get sex because your single and you could do it. i would just tell them that you dont wnat anything like that you just want them to be your friends and hangout. and if they cant respect that and still try to get more then they arent worth it. theyre not atrue friend.
2007-03-13 22:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by sunshine24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like to flirt? Maybe you are sending the wrong signals. Or, maybe they are just the wrong kind of friends. Yes, some guys can be your friend only. You should have some defined boundaries with them. Let them know your intentions so they can think with their head instead of their other head.
2007-03-13 22:45:37 · answer #6 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could be friends with benefits!
sorry no, if the woman is even mildly attractive and the guy is straight there's always going to be some amount of sexual tension. If you're fat or ugly then yeah we can just be friends no problem... otherwise, we usualy want in the panties, sorry.
2007-03-13 22:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Brian W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem...I like to have guy friends vs girl. It seem to me yer damned if you do and damned if you don't. If you don't give in to their advances alot them will stop talking to you and feel rejected and if you do anything with them...alot of them will stop talking to you...and they will no longer act like the friends you were before. I think there is a timeline for girls and guys to be friends...after that it's get in or get out.
2007-03-13 22:46:34 · answer #8 · answered by sass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There can be 'actual friendship' between men and women when they are all neutered, that, my friend is about what it is. Believe what YOU WANT, though.
2007-03-13 22:43:35 · answer #9 · answered by joulsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to be friends with a guy and have no sexual feelings for them. They are probably being overprotective and you need to warn them they are just friends not boyfriends.
2007-03-13 22:42:37 · answer #10 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋