im in high school and i really like this guy in the grade above me. we talk pretty often and we always seem to show up in the same places..we have sooo much in common and we've danced at a dance (i asked him)...he seems to flirt with me and me with him.. he isn't that shy even around other girls but he is around me.. and even though we talk pretty often i always have to initiate the conversation.. anyways.. we are going on this trip together for our school to new york...any ideas on how to get this going.. i really like him and REALLy want him to be my boyfriend...! i mean should i like ask him to sit with me on the plane/at a restaurant etc. ... other ideas..i really want to date himm!
2007-03-13 15:38:47 · 13 answers · asked by ohhhhh 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow. And they said that love stinks. Get a whiff of that.
Young lady, this guy sees you as marriage material. And that scares him like a fly in a web. All he can do is stare, like a deer in headlights.
Now, don't make any sudden moves or he'll bolt for the hills. If he sits with you, it will leave him petrified. Sit on the aisle seat and him across from you. Close, but friendly close. Next, across from each other at restaurant. Finally, on way home, share seat next to each other. See the progression, natural like. He won't know you've planned every moment of it. Good, what he doesn't know won't scare him.
Last thing to do on the trip is to offer to do an activity (you will have grilled him over the coals to find out what he enjoys doing for fun) with him in a few days. Make sure you tell him it isn't like a date because you want him to ask for a date if he wants one, being the old fashion romantic you are. Tell him you enjoy his company and that being with him these last few days has made you see him in a different way. That will boost his ego.
But, don't come off as too eager to be romantic or intimate. That takes you off the 'intriguing' list.
2007-03-13 15:58:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're in a pretty good position! My advice is just go for it. He sounds like he likes you, but he's shy. So ask him to hang out with you, sit by you, etc. Take things slowly. The more he gets to know you, the more likely he'll actually ask you out.
Good luck, have fun on your trip!
2007-03-13 22:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by 1337_becky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being straight-forward will always speed things up. Like you said, you can ask him if he wants to sit with you on the plane, and get him to be with you more one-on-one. It sounds like he's interested in you, so it wouldn't hurt to make the first move. Giving hugs and bright smiles are always friendly, so give give give them out!
2007-03-13 22:44:59 · answer #3 · answered by Irene \m/. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I think you should talk to him. Just talk normaly, be yourself. When you think you are ready maybe you could ask him out. You will know when the time is right. Take it slow. Hope is works. Also, not in front of his friends. Hope this helps.
2007-03-13 22:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Janeen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to sit with you on the plane and be yourself
then you'll have fun the rest of the time.
2007-03-13 22:43:05 · answer #5 · answered by MONET GIRL. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out
2007-03-13 22:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe yall should go on a date together..."just as friends" (lol)...yes...dont ASK him to sit by you...you just DO IT...:D
good luck!
2007-03-13 22:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him to sit with you on the plane and start talking and spend more time with him.when the moment is right ask him.hope it works.
2007-03-13 22:41:57 · answer #8 · answered by timesquare_dog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on, ask him to do something with you. If you really liked him you would have the guts to ask him out. Or if he liked you, he should have the guts to ask you out! YOU GO GIRL!!
2007-03-13 22:42:24 · answer #9 · answered by Teacherz Pet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him out, before it's too late.
2007-03-13 22:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by johnnytsao1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋