what should i do?
2007-03-13 15:38:37 · 5 answers · asked by Jon R 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This could play out a couple different ways. Either she likes you back and really is afraid that she'd lose your friendship if you ever broke up, or she doesn't like you and is using that as an excuse. Talk to her about it. My roommate said the same thing about her friend who she's head over heels for, and she finally decided to go for it after someone told her "would you rather be with the one person that you want and take the slim chance of losing them forever, or never act on your feelings and always wonder what might've been?" Find out if she likes you. If she doesn't, sorry, tough luck. But if she does, ask her that. See what happens.
2007-03-13 15:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out right now, yourself, apart from your friends.... be a man.
It's not your friends' business, and they're not helping you by repeating this.
Also, (being a girl myself), this sounds like it could just be something that girls "say"....i.e., she might be into you, but wants to stay cool with your friends so she's not going to encourage them to work it for you. She may also be sending a signal by saying what good friends you are.....what better basis for beginning a romantic relationship?
*You* need to step up to the plate and take a swing, and if you whiff it, so what?. At least you got up to bat. Unlike your friends, the first and third-base coaches...
This is good life experience while you're still in hs. The more girls you ask out the more success and confidence you'll have in general (taking the good w/the bad), and it will serve you well when you get to college and have ever more serious relationships.
2007-03-13 15:48:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Appreciate the good friendship the two of you have. Try being a good friend instead of her knight in shining armor, because who knows, she could develop feelings for you.
Take her word for it. If she just wants to be friends, leave it at that. Pursue the unpursuable, and you could end up losing a very good friend.
2007-03-13 15:43:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what they are trying to say is if you all go out for 3 months and then break up your not gonna have that friend bond anymore it would be weird to be around her. so they are trying to help you. your choices are friendship or taking a chance and seeing what happens in life.
2007-03-13 15:42:44 · answer #4 · answered by Grace W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's afraid if she says ur to good of friends then she likes u to but is to scared, the fact that ur good friends is wat is making her afriad to be more because she feels it might make things akward or if ur not the one then she will hav lost a friendship and she dosent want that iu might think we will still be friends but she knows better
2007-03-13 15:44:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋