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I told my guy friend that I really like,that I hated him.I did it out of anger,and I really regret it.I wanted to talk to him,but last night he didnt get online,and tonight he only got on for like 10 minutes.i think I really hurt him,and I need to know that hes not mad at me.I'm afraid to call him because everytime we talk,it costs him money,and I'm afraid he'll say something that will hurt my feelings.Should I call him or just wait until tomorrow?

2007-03-13 15:37:39 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

31 answers

girl call him if u really feel guilty

2007-03-13 15:41:15 · answer #1 · answered by lilmed4ever 2 · 0 0

It sounds like you hurt him, and he is mad at you...wouldn't you be? If he has an IM, write him anote, apologize and explain, follow with an email card and wait untill tomorrow or even the next day. Guys take awhile to cool off. ( Girls too)You might want to tell him you understand and ask yourself why you said it...the best way to make up is to own what you said and not blame the other person. Good luck.

2007-03-13 22:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by sarah jeanna 1 · 0 0

The last thing you should be focused on is that he might hurt YOUR feelings. You hurt his; the right thing to do is apologize and say "it was in the heat of the moment; we dont mean things that we say out of anger feelings." If calling costs him, try any other form of communication...stay online and say sorry on ure away message, send him an email, or if he lives close stop by..i dont know find some way, esp. if you value the relationship you have.
Best wishes.

2007-03-13 22:42:29 · answer #3 · answered by gaga_chick 2 · 0 0

If it costs him money, no you shouldn't call him - what you should do is to write him an email, a letter, whatever, that he can read at his convenience & express your regret at your hasty actions. Tell him you don't hate him & why you really like him. He'll be in touch in his own time.

2007-03-13 22:41:52 · answer #4 · answered by sweet pea 5 · 0 0

This is what you should do. Before you post a question go ahead and run a search on it first. I have seen so many of the same questions on here all talking about the same bs. Yo get a friend or a clue.

2007-03-13 22:40:45 · answer #5 · answered by drunknfaded 3 · 1 1

If it costs him money to talk to you why would you use a time like that to apologize?

Just wait until tomorrow. Face to face is always better.

2007-03-13 22:41:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

u must be calling his cell phone? im sure he has free night and weekend minutes. or call a land line. if u really want to apologize ud call. if he says something to hurt your feelings, maybe hes doing it out of anger...just like u did

2007-03-13 22:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

call someone who lives closer---then you can throw a hissy fit and get a cheaper reaction. Are you a young person?? It kind of shows by the story you put up here

2007-03-13 22:41:17 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0 0

Maybe you do hate him. If you said it, it is true, unless you are a child. I suggest you get off the computer for a week for a time out and get in control of yourself. If I "was" your friend you wouldn't get me back.

2007-03-13 22:44:18 · answer #9 · answered by Beavis 1 · 0 0

Hmm, I would just wait until tomorrow. Apologize to him in person, explain yourself and it will mean more when you are right there in front of him.

2007-03-13 22:40:12 · answer #10 · answered by Nevaeh 3 · 1 0

Call him and tell him how much it hurts you having been so unfair. But do not expect him to change his feelings towards you. Call him just to feel better yourself.

2007-03-13 22:46:08 · answer #11 · answered by Madonna Pi 6 · 0 0

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