I mean, I think people are hott, and there are a ton of people I would go out with if they asked, but I don't really have like, one special person who's always on my mind. If they are, it is usually because I am thinking of them in a friend way~!
2007-03-13 15:31:04 · 29 answers · asked by Camel Catcher 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes its more of looking beyond the appearance. If you really get to know someone's personality, thats when I think you'd start really liking them. Its kind of a good thing that you don't really like anyone. I'm the exact opposite and am always obsessing about someone; it gets very distracting.
2007-03-13 15:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is because you have good self esteem and you know what you want, you just haven't found it yet, or you assume too much too quickly about people. It is always easier to see the bad than the good. don't sweat it eventually you will find some one that drives you you nuts in a good way. Just hope that they feel the same way about you or you will get hurt. I think it is good a good thing that you don't fall in love with everyone you meet. So relax and chill enjoy the fact you are not co-dependent.
2007-03-13 22:38:30 · answer #2 · answered by flydives 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over the years I have seen a lot of things. One of the most remarkable is girls/women getting involved with the wrong guys.
Most females have no idea what a man is or is supposed to be. Some are impressed by perfect bodies with muscles and 6 pack abs only to find out that the guy is far too in love with himself to love her. Some think the bad boys are a great choice only to discover that they are perpetual "boys" who never mature and that gets old pertty fast.
Some are impressed by show-offs who are always the center of attention. Only to find out that he is hiding his feelings of inadequacy by putting on a front. That he is unbelievably "needy".
Some like tough guy types who "don't take any crap" only to find out that it isn't that they don't take it but that they can't take it. When life dishes it up he quits jobs, gets drunk, gets in trouble, lashes out, becomes abusive etc.
A lot of women choose poorly. There seems to be no education about what she should be looking for in a mate. Maybe your feelings are trying to tell you something important. Maybe the best choice isn't necessarily "hot". Maybe you should find someone fun, happy, confident, helpful, loving, dependable, smart and determined. Someone who looks to the future and sees lots of possibilities. Someone optimistic even if he isn't physically pretty or perfectly in fashion. Could be you are special enough to realize there is much more than a pretty face or empty suit.
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2007-03-13 22:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you just havent found that person yet. i think you have the ability to like someone though because you said that you would go out with someone if they; asked you out. but having that special person grows with the relationship and you love them more and more each day. so they may not be special yet but they will be. i would just date and see what happens. after a while you will get that special feeling.
2007-03-13 22:37:04 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's you. You're maybe thinking "they don't act like me 'n my family so they're weird" possibly, maybe unknowingly? Or you don't really want to "date" anyone right now? Or ? You don't need 'puppy love' or something interrupt your school work.
~~~Don't live a soap opera life!! Those lives aren't real and that's not how life really is!~~~
Don't worry. There is such a thing as "too pretty". Get to know how they really are (temper, want to dominate, hitting, etc.) and pick the best one. (hopefully) Don't get serious about anyone. Just be friends and keep on truckin'. Things will get better.
Or, .......finding some new friends is maybe best idea.
2007-03-13 23:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way. I realized none of the people are someone I would really want to be with. I would just wait till you find the special person...don't go out with someone just cause you think their hot or cause you "want" to be in a relationship.
2007-03-13 22:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not a freak. you probably just don't know what your type is that you like yet. You obviously are interested in good looks (like most) but you probably need to find the type of person that really makes you click
2007-03-13 22:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by Shae O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way pal, the only guys that want to ask me out are the ones I would never date. story of my life.
2007-03-13 22:33:22 · answer #8 · answered by Danielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe right now you don't want to think of just one person. Maybe the right guy hasn't shown up yet for you to give your full attention to. Happy day, peace/.
2007-03-13 22:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're young, don't worry. A special person will come along.
2007-03-13 22:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by Julia Sugarbaker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋