Why does everything I say wrong!???

Question

I try to get along with my dad and forgive him...even though I can't stand him...
I ask him something really polite and in calm voice. He flippin goes nuts, he shouts "STOPS YELLING" and he is like oh great now we are going to fight.. I wasn't even that mad, but he has to say things in a rude voice, and i have so many other things stressing me out, I really don't need him doing this to me.
I try talking to him...but really he won't change, he will never understand or even take the time to listen. I am literaly going insane because this is happening every flippin day!!!!

I appreciated the following advice, but if I don't talk to him.. he would start complaining to my mom and he be like she nevers talks to me she hates me...So no matter what I do he just going to get mad.. i do try to avoid him as much as I can but it never work.. He know that everyone is miserable living with him he just doesn't understand no matter how much we tell him.. .He never will understand emotion, feelings, or anyone..

Answer 1

what i am thinking is, your dad takes all of his stress out onto you even if you dont do anything wrong..hes probably having a lot of tension elsewhere....my advice to you is either stay away from him...which may or may not be a good idea to you because it is your dad...or try to ask other family members if they know what will help him out if they know him very well..try understanding him and what he has to go through..maybe he has a lot of work and not enough time to do it...or not enough sleep..there can be a lot of problems affecting him and his attitude toward others...sorry if it wasnt a good enough advice..

Answer 2

don't talk to him for a while--say hello and that is about it. He sounds stressed out also