I need help my gf & i were making out on a dock & she was allergic 2 fish. I gave her fish and she blew up like a bubble. We went home & i said i was sorry but she was still mad cuz she said she'd told me a million times, and that i wasn't a good listener.
I gave her my jacket, so i would see her again no matter what happened, dropped her off at her house. I went home & my very seductive neighbor was over, she'd been hitting on me for a while. Well not thinking i sat down beside her & we started to watch my girl ( i know old huh?) she snuggled up to me then she started to make-out w/ me !!!!!!!!!! My kinda x walked in to ive me jacket & walked right back out. I ran after her and she stopped & said "oh i get it, i was second, she was 1st she was who you listen 2 huh?!!!!!!!!!" What can I do to win back Jossie's affection, WE WERE IN LOVE, LOVE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-13 15:28:58 · 22 answers · asked by Skipper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you are out of luck
2007-03-13 15:33:08 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA! Why do you want to win her back?
You said it yourself, "WE WERE IN LOVE, LOVE"...what the hell is that? You loved her one minute, the next you didn't?
Kinda sounds as if you didn't love her to start, or the neighbor wouldn't have had the ability to get a snuggle and cop a feel as the "kinda x" walked back in.
So..lets be honest here too, how do you forget the neighbor has been hitting on ya for awhile? You didn't...
What it boiled down too is the fact that you were horny, and wanted a piece, so it didn't work out with the "kinda x", so you decided to get a hit with the neighbor,...and you got caught with your pants down.
Sounds like to me, I'd just forget about the "kinda x" until you figure out what it is you really want? Cause I don't think even you know, or you'd remembered your "kinda x" was alergice to fish......
2007-03-13 15:49:22 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk it out and be honest. Communication is the key if you are serious about the love you have for her. You need her because you love her. But what you did was very dumb. And you should admit to your mistake and be completely open with her. You've got to build up your trust with her again. First, talk to her as soon as you can. React!
2007-03-13 15:34:01 · answer #3 · answered by Dysire 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all that was a big a s s wole thing to do not the fish thing that was an accident but you really shoould listen but making out with that girl was dumb! if you really love her just dont give up no matter what ! seriously girls love it when you fight for them
2007-03-13 15:33:18 · answer #4 · answered by Beccaa0806 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really not sure what to tell you other than trying to explain to her, even though she probably won't listen. just give her some space to cool off then go back and talk it out. im sorry if this isn't much help but its all i can really say for you to do.
2007-03-13 15:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welll first you she needs a DEPP APOLOGY from your heart whether yall hook-up together or not...
2nd...SHAME ON YOU!!! how dare you...if you loved her why did you do it...Give yourself some thinking time...and maybe get your prioritys straight
3rd...If she TRULY loved you...she wouldnt leave you that fast...and you wouldnt leave her...She must be deeply hurt...so you better make yourself up to her expectations buddy...YOu did her worng...YOu need to show her you DO love her...
2007-03-13 15:34:06 · answer #6 · answered by *Breath* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET HER COOL DOWN FOR A BIT THE EXPLAIN AND BE TRUTHFUL AND SINCERE . MAYBE SHE WILL FORGIVE BUT IF YOU WERE REALLY IN LOVE THAT MUCH TO START WITH THEN THE SECOND GIRL SHOULD & COULD NOT OF HAPEND TO BEGIN WITH ONCE SHE COOLS YOU BETER BE READY FOR ALLOT OF SUCKING UP I DON'T THINK YOU WERE IN LOVE ASMUCH AS YOU WERE INLUST
2007-03-13 15:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by BRADLEY A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can run after her and apologize like a MILLION times. Girls like that. I would sooner or later give a guy my affection back.
2007-03-13 15:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Teacherz Pet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you should have listened. she shouldn't have beaten you THAT bad over not listening. and about the neighbor thing you should have thought about not doing anything if you really loved the one who you didn't listen to.
2007-03-13 15:33:21 · answer #9 · answered by cowgirlclub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really loved her you wouldn't have done that. But you can start by showing her that you are trustworthy again.
2007-03-13 15:33:01 · answer #10 · answered by Marcela Paola 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sux just tell her the truth or o something flashy like serenade at her window to show your love for her
2007-03-13 15:32:51 · answer #11 · answered by Psycho Taco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋