okay....i have FRIENDS....but like NO guy want to BE my BF(and that makes me think i'm ugly)....i MEAn I DO have guy FRIENDS....BUT I HAVE NEVEr had a BOYFRIEND!!!! (i'm in 8th grade)....my friends say that i'm TOO shy..i am....BUT NOT that shy, but shy..WHAT CAN I DO TO BE LESS SHY????HOW CAN I FLIRT...I need advice b/c i'm going to HIGH SCHOOL in like 2 months!!!....if you are gonna say that i'm too young don't answer this QUESTION!!PLEASE HELP
2007-03-13 15:27:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
PLEASE DO NOT BE RUDE!!
2007-03-13 15:32:51 · update #1
Ok, you are doing just fine. It's perfectly normal to not have a boyfriend by eighth grade. I was kind of shy, and didn't have any boyfriends in middle school, but since I've been in High School, I've had four. So just you wait, you'll get all kinds of guys. What my friends and I do when we want a new bf is... make a plan of action! Or a p.o.a., as we call them. First, select a target- pick a boy you like, that you already know or can meet. Then develope a plan to get them to like you. If you want to know how to flirt, it's not too hard. Make eye contact and smile, give them a hug, whatever you're comfortable with. I'm sure guys like you already. Maybe THEY'RE shy, and that's why you haven't had a bf yet. Don't worry, good tihngs come to those who wait. Good luck, cutie!
2007-03-13 15:34:31 · answer #1 · answered by 1337_becky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I am in 10th grade, and never had a boyfriend in my life. If you try to found a boyfriend right now, do you really think it is going to last forever.?. I just take my parents advice, I have all the time in the world to get into a relationship with someone, why worry about it now?
2007-03-13 22:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by Megan G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i can't get a guy either. truth is girls like us are probably what some guys might want. their just too shy. 8th grade doesn't matter junior high doesn't mean anything. and my mom didn't have a boyfriend at all through school. and she met my dad and he's everything she wanted. so don't stress. girls like us have hope :)
2007-03-13 22:34:00 · answer #3 · answered by fashiongrl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey! Wow... you remind me of me.
:D
Well, here's my advice.
And you may not like it, but it's still advice coming from my experience.
When i was in 8th grade, i liked two guys a LOT and i kept wondering why they didn't like me back. it sucked, and i always thought that i was ugly, or maybe i was too loud [shy in your case :D]...
Turns out, once i tuned down and kept being myself around my own friends, i started to get more friends and guys started to know me better.
Now that I'm in High School, I'm happily dating my best friend.
My advice? Be youself, and don't worry about it. It will come to you.
:)
2007-03-13 22:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by Juliette 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't have a boyfriend until half way through my freshman year in high school. my friends always said the same stuff to me. Don't worry, its middle school, you can always do something like get a really cute haircut you had been wanting or dye your hair before high school to give your self confidence a little boost. good luck on finding a boy hun.
2007-03-13 22:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take care of how you look (like keeping yourself well groomed and stuff) Always dress well, and see how you can catch guys attention! on you. Take a long look at yourself in the mirror and realize that you are a really goodlooking ...sexy girl.
2007-03-13 22:43:20 · answer #6 · answered by Someday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a boyfriend is not a requirement for you to go to highschool..
Don't look for it, it would come at a time when you least expect it..you'll just be surprised..believe me..
2007-03-13 22:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by Katrina V 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
see im a guy, i used to be like that going to the 4rth grade...all i did was step my game up start being outgoing--females started liking me. As soon as i got to the sixth grade i did the same thing(had alot of girlfreinds), as soon as i got to high school i did NOTHING, but females stayed coming after me because i had wat you call a REPUTATION.
2007-03-13 22:33:21 · answer #8 · answered by Landy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only in the 8th grade ... give yourself some time sweetie.
2007-03-13 22:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Latin_Lvr 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
HEY u just have 2 wait and see what happen and dont think youre ugly cause i bet you dont and im sorry i have to say this but yes your young be patient !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-13 22:35:33 · answer #10 · answered by dhc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋