I love my boyfriend, but i've been thinking lately that maybe life would be better without him as my b.f.. You know, like maybe I could go out with other guys and keep my options open. But everytime i'm with him and he says or does something really sweet, my heart melts and im like "how could I ever break up with this guy?" I've been thinking about this a lot, and I truly do not know what to do. HELP!!!!!
2007-03-13 15:25:25 · 15 answers · asked by CC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have the feeling to break up with him, means u have doubts, which means just break up with him
If he is a real man he will get over it and get another girl
2007-03-13 15:28:35 · answer #1 · answered by rofl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.... to put it this way, "If you have any doubt in your mind and are having thought about breaking off with him, your heart isn't in it already".
Basically, you're staying in your relationship out of.... guilt? sympathy? It sucks and it's a bad reason to stay in a relationship with him because of sympathy and guilt because he's such a nice guy and treats you nice. You have to come clean and be honest with yourself, what do you really want? He would prefer you to do that as well and he would rather take a strong but negative answer than a "half-as.s" positive answer.
Think about it, and let us know what you decide to do :)
2007-03-13 15:31:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can only be answered by you and you alone. As you are aware of this feelings for you why don't you just let him be your boyfriend. If you are soft-hearted everytime he says or does something, I think it has something to do with your character and your preference. So yes, it is your choice.
2007-03-13 15:31:34 · answer #3 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first think if all u want from other guys is kissing well u really need to stop being that way. but if u want other guys to hang out with well go to the mall and make a few friends it sounds like he's nice so u need to keep him and find sum more friends
2007-03-13 15:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by pistoluser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well talk to him and tell him how you feel. and then see how you feel around him. If you think that anything could happend between you two then stick with it. But if you dont then let him down easy and tell him that you just dont think you are right for each other. Then you can try out all of your other options. Just whatever makes you happy!
2007-03-13 15:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by Taylor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you mustn't be disenchanted using fact he mandatory the airplane tickets. And he had to respond to the telephone, he could no longer only permit the guy call. specific, the guy ought to've referred to as back yet he could be dropping the guy's time and you on no account comprehend if that guy grow to be great busy. So don't be egocentric approximately what your boyfriend did very nicely? i comprehend why you're thinking this for the reason which you somewhat had to proceed the consultation and you in all probability theory it grow to be impolite, i could too for a 2d yet then, i could comprehend i grow to be only grimy and that i ought to easily be chuffed we are doing it.
2016-09-30 21:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If other men are on your mind then it sounds like you are not ready to settle for this guy...you could suggest slowing down a bit and seeing other people.
2007-03-13 15:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by Broken 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to see what else is out there, so you will appreciate him more...but would you like him to go out with others also...maybe you could just say i want to date others...or maybe you are bored and need to spice it up with bf..go out or think of things you guys could do together that you both might enjoy...comedy club...etc. or some like indoor rock climbing ...you get it...act like you are dating again and its all new
2007-03-13 15:32:06 · answer #8 · answered by Girl with Kaleidoscope Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are having doubts have a heart to heart with him, be true to yourself and him. if you want to date others then its time to end the relationship. ITs not fair to both of you if you dont want to be with him but stay with him out of loyalty.
2007-03-13 15:29:15 · answer #9 · answered by bbinqueens33 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just suggest some time apart to see if it is real or not. It worked for a friend of mine.
2007-03-13 15:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by mrs_endless 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋