I love my fiance but I still like my old crush and I can't get over it. I can't tell either of them this, but I kinda don't want to stop thinking about either one. One is fantasy, and the other is reality. Is it normal to have this fantasy of the guy I used to like after almost 7 years of a relationship? Can I just keep that thought, and dream?
2007-03-13 15:22:22 · 4 answers · asked by ~* Garden Empress*~ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't see any prollem with that as long as you don't act on that crush. as long as you're totally devoted to your fiance and you don't talk in your sleep, then rock on with your fantasy guy.
2007-03-13 15:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe I shouldn't be the one to answer this, but here goes: I am married to a wonderful man I've been with for about 9 years, and I've known his best friend for over that time frame. I fell in love with my husbands BF and slept with him along time ago. Recently, my husband and I allowed his BF to join us in bed and then from there we have continued a relationship. I am choosing NOT to seperate my desires...both give me something the other doesn't. Good luck to you!
2007-03-13 22:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by Karrie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, it is what it is and as long as you know your fiance is the one for you that's all that matters. It's very normal to think about those who we've shared so much with. You'll be alright.
2007-03-13 22:32:37 · answer #3 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. If you still like that person in time, then maybe you should do what you think is best. (ask them out or not)
2007-03-13 22:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Lauren O. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋