when you are in a committed relationship and he suddenly changes on you do you still accept him in your life or look forward to a break up?
2007-03-13 15:02:10 · 8 answers · asked by Tricia bee 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would look forward to a break up. You might be able to salvage the relationship. But he has to be willing to work on it with you. Chances are, if he's already thinking about other girls, then he doesn't share the same feelings with you.
The best thing you can do is sit down and talk to him. If he can't even acknowledge the fact that there's a problem in your relationship, then it's not worth your time. You might want to break up before you get too attached to him too. And you wouldn't want him to have the last say, especially if he's talking about dating other girls. He knows that it hurts you. So he might be giving you a hint. I wouldn't cut him off right away until I knew what his intentions were.
Take care of yourself before anyone else.
Good luck.
2007-03-13 15:04:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation...if YOU can accept having an open relationship with him...fine...that is your business, but if you feel disrespected with the notion and don't value the idea then i think it's time for both to move in separate directions...i think evolving is good for the relationship but when a person starts talking about changing the dynamic of the relationship then it's time to move on...
2007-03-13 22:10:39 · answer #2 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was as committed as you are he wouldnt be thinking about dating other girls. Thats a sign he probably isnt as into you as you might think. You do what you must just be careful and dont get into the relationship any deeper I would hate for you to get a broken heart.
2007-03-13 22:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't. However, he could be trying to make you believe he could leave anytime. He must be intimidated by you. A bit insecure on his part. Don't let him get to you. If you are having doubts, break up. Life is too short to not be sure in a relationship.
2007-03-13 22:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by knowitall 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd break up with a person who was dating other girls.
2007-03-13 22:04:40 · answer #5 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd call it over! It's not committed if one or both is dating other people
2007-03-13 22:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by sharpeilvr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's dating other girls, don't stay with him. If he just talks about them, ask him if he wants to go separate ways. Go
ahead. You're entitled to know the truth.
2007-03-13 22:06:41 · answer #7 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Throw him out to the curb..
Dump him immediately..
2007-03-13 22:05:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋