here's wats happening. i've been cheated twice, both by the gal i loved deeply. both i've been with for more den 2 yrs, 1st it was Miss A den it was MIss B. thus, i'm seriously lack of security, its like i cant trust anyone easily. i'm very very paranoid, always fear this and that. i think no gal can take this. my 3rd gf broke up with me cuz of this. i think i've to stay single forever cuz no gal can stand me? is there anyone out there like me? or facing the same problem as my ex? (third gf) sorry for bad english
2007-03-13 14:58:20 · 10 answers · asked by sulaji84 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take ur chances and find someone new. some girl has u in her thoughts and u dont notce her...
2007-03-21 14:05:02 · answer #1 · answered by kaira biasu 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm just like you. I'm a woman (26 yrs) that has the same problem. I keep running men off because I don't feel like they're being faithful. Most of the time they weren't, but they couldn't stand the accusations. It's like I'm standing in my own way. I've tried to act like I don't care if someone cheats or not becasue people love the confidence of a person that has a care free attitude, but my true colors always shine through. I really think it has a lot to do with finding the right person as well. Maybe if people had trustworthy tendencies than we wouldn't be thinking this way.
2007-03-13 15:06:03 · answer #2 · answered by Sash2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well live is to long to take things this serious at this age that I suppose you are young... There is nothing wrong if someone is cheating at this age... Try to think like the other person that you are with... If she cheated on you with another guy she maybe had a feeling with him or just wanted to be one time with him... If there is something you can't do is control other peoples feelings... Al you can do is admit those feelings and of course not stay with that person anymore... There is going to some one day that you will be with a girl for one time and at some point you will feel attracted to someone else and trust me you will not first brake with the one you have and than after hook up with the other one... you will do both of them in the same time... Make sure you don't hurt any one in this mess... If some one loves you they don't deserve to get hurt in any way possible...
PS. Cheating is not ok if you are married and especially if you got kids.
2007-03-21 07:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by ermal_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long has it been since you broke up with your second gf. Give yourself some time. It is hard to trust. Really hard. Just take one step at a time. talk to your third ex and let her know what the situation is.maybe she will understand where you are coming from. You also can't blame her for those other girls mistakes. It's not fair for her. Give her a little of your trust at a time
2007-03-13 15:03:27 · answer #4 · answered by btjuana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through a similar phase. I just couldn't believe I could ever be with someone. But trust me, someone will come, when you least expect it. Someone who will help you break that paranoia, help you through it. Its just a matter of finding that person.
-AOS
2007-03-13 15:03:01 · answer #5 · answered by Atrophy OS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if ur happy being single then stay single. but if you want to find someone go look cause i know u will find one eventually. just be patient and try to be more trusting.
2007-03-13 15:05:16 · answer #6 · answered by pnoybaler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who loves you more than you love her. Then get some self-confidence. Read the "Desiderata" for inspiration. It brought me through difficult times.
2007-03-21 13:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by Jumpin' in the Dark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your hot i'll go out with you
2007-03-21 13:57:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes girls like their space and ur gurl got tired of u being to insecure i dont think u would like it if ur gurl wuz on ur *** 24-7 huh think maybe you gotta learn how to give ur girls some space.....
2007-03-21 13:50:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok well trust is building a relationship
2007-03-13 15:04:07 · answer #10 · answered by amlbaf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋