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Question

Ok so this goes along with the last question I asked about they guy I like and how he's in love with my best friend who was dating my cousin, until today when my best friend and my cousin broke up. So I called the guy I like, we'll call him "Bob" ((Not his real name)) lol anyway I called him to tell him about my cousin we'll call him "Joe" and my best friend we'll call her "Sally" So he was very excited about that, and all he could talk about is how much he cared about her. It hurt....Bad....and He's like if you get me and sally hooked up I'll do ANYTHING for you, but the only thing I wanted....was him...I love him so much and I would do anything for him, and it's so easy to talk to him about anything and he feels the same way....It SUCKS!!! Help.......

Answer 1

Don't hook them up if that hurts you. It's better to be truthful.
Tell him something like: Remember you said you'll do anything for me if I hook you up with Sally? Well, I can't do that cause what I want is you.
Okay, that's probably too hard for you to do, but compare to the hurt you'll get when you help them get together???? Come on, this is your life we're talking about. Go get what you want girl. If he doesn't have feelings for you, at least he'll respect you for telling the truth, he won't ask you to help him hook up with sally again, and you could say to yourself: at least I've tried, now I could go find another guy. No regrets. Besides, it would prevent future complications, you don't have a chance at all with him if he got together with Sally. There is this rule about not dating your bestfriends' ex right. :) So do something now, before it's too late.