Ok, Me and my girlfriend are both 13 soon to be 14 in the next few months, and I just today found out that shes not a virgin. She had apparently gotten drunk and had sex the summer before we got together. She had not told me this until today, and we have been together for quite awhile. What should I do??!?
2007-03-13 14:39:15 · 5 answers · asked by Mr.Right 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends how uncomfortable it makes you. If you really can't stand it, break up with her. But otherwise, just accept it.
And do not have sex with her. You may begin to think that thats what she wants now, but its not. And even if it is, don't do it if you don't really want to. 14 is too young, in my opinion, but its your choice.
Oh, and try to compliment her for at least telling her. It must have been difficult for her.
-AOS
2007-03-13 14:44:56 · answer #1 · answered by Atrophy OS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok so she had sex when she was either 12 or 13? Seriously dude be careful with this girl. Sounds like she isn't the most trustworthy.
2007-03-13 21:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by CJ B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do nothing what about it just sex and you didn't know her then,now if you get a chance you don't have to worry about taking it to easy you can enjoy without worrying,but if I were you I would wait untill 16 anyway.
2007-03-13 21:48:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her....she is easy and a minor league ****! Soon to be in the majors
2007-03-13 21:44:47 · answer #4 · answered by jay b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself time and find out how much this information affects you life.... find out how much her past means to you..... besides, its really hard for a girl to tell her boyfriend this... take that into account too... ask her what it meant to her and if she feels hurt stil or anything like that...
2007-03-13 21:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by Zuri 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋