I think i might have a stalker.. i dont know wut to do.. he wont leave me alone.. online i mean... he started messaging me on myspace but i blocked him.. then about a month later.. he somehow got my messenger name and messaged me on yahoo messenger.. and then i blocked him on that.. he then found out my boyfriends cell number and wont leave him alone.. he texted him saying i was cheating on him and blah blah blah.. he dont believe him.. but he keeps saying that hes gonna get me to get with him and all that.. i just.. dont know wut to do.. im scared.. i dont know wut to do.. i mean if he can get my boyfriends cell number.. wut else can he get.. just.. HELP... i need help...
2007-03-13 14:35:31 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Here's what I would do...
1. Save all his messages or emails he's sending you. You'll need it when you file your report.
2. Deactivate your myspace account. I know you must have a lot of important friends but hey go through your list of friends and save all their contact info or whatever you need. Later on, contact your friends who you communicate with on myspace and let them know about the situation. Keep only the ones that offer to help and make sure you tell them not to let this guy know about yourself. They can just tell them that they do not know what happen.
3. Deactivate your yahoo account as well and get a new addy and email address. Again, add only the ones that are important....
4. Change your cell phone number and your boyfriend's number.
Hope this helps.
2007-03-13 14:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get all the contact details you can get like his online names and the phone number if it comes up on the phone and go to the police, this is a very serious problem and god knows what he is capable of doing and the thing is you don't know how old he is or anything so he might be experienced at this kind of thing. You need to show him that you aren't scared of him and by going to the cops you are showing him that this is not acceptable behaviour, just ensure that you are very careful.
2007-03-13 14:42:48 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath. do no longer proceed to prank call him. That only makes concerns worse. adult males like ladies who actual techniques-set them. for the time of classification you need to ask approximately final nights homework or some thing like, "Do you get this concern" or ask to borrow a pencil or a sheet of paper. remember, don't be apprehensive, he's totally a guy. start up with small communicate, then once you grow to be extra familiar, start up asking the interior maximum stuff, yet remember adult males have barriers too have self assurance it or no longer. and attempt to no longer DO THE CREEPY STUFF!!!!! there are various different adult males on your college I wager. stable luck!!!!
2016-09-30 21:32:46 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the police. If they are sending you massages then they can be traced. If he is calling your boyfriends cell phone then he can be traced. While this may be a harmless joke, you don't know this and I wouldn't let them play games with me any longer, so get it stopped now.
2007-03-13 14:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Really ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had some stalkers, and this is going a bit over bored, if you know his real name get a restaining order, and don't answer calls from #'s you or your b/f doesn't know. Just ignore him, He'll get the picture and go away. Or he'll get tired your not playing that game anymore.
Good luck
2007-03-13 14:39:42 · answer #5 · answered by Becki 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should tell an adult about this before it gets out of control. If he keeps bothering you than call the police.
2007-03-13 14:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by Trey E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go to the police and report it ASAP..... before anything else happens - that is a serious offence you know. and if you have to change all your usernames on the internet too and get your b/f to change his ph number...
2007-03-13 14:38:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that is sooooooooo scary and annoying. Say mean things to him, very mean, and make him sad. That worked when some stupid boy stalked me
2007-03-13 14:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by ????????? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is beyond complicated. this guy got carried away. i dont think talking to him will help since it might just provoke him more. i say u get a restraining order on him or something.
2007-03-13 14:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by Osphronemus G 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
it is someone you know, they are hot for you. let the police know you have concerns about this, when you bust a cap in his azz, you will have a record of the complaint
2007-03-13 14:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋