There is a drop dead gorgeous guy who works at a store across the street from me.Over the months we have said hi & bye with a little small talk but thats it. But lately he's been starring at me since I changed my hairstyle and he's been talking to me a lot more. He even let me borrow his car & gave me $20 for gas & told me I can borrow it whenever I want to. His co-workers keep asking me whats up with us because he usually doesnt do that for people.I think he likes me, but I dont want to ask him. He told me he doesnt have any woman in his life. He's from India & he has a strict culture.I know he has to be attracted to me because his body language tells it all, but how do I let him know I'm interested?His cousin likes me for a fact, but he (the one I like) is way nicer & kinder towards females so I would rather get to know him if I can. If I ask him and he says he doesnt like me,I'll feel too embarrassed to show my face in there again !What do I do?
2007-03-13 14:27:05 · 8 answers · asked by Wisdom 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought of asking a co-worker to ask him but there's only two other guys who work there. One is his cousin who likes me for himself and is jealous of our friendship. He even snapped at me when I told him we were "friends" and he said "Well good luck being his friend" in a really sarcastic way. The other guy acts likes he's attracted to me too, so I wouldnt trust either one of them to handle the situation properly. They have been "player hating". (Thats ebonics for being jealous.) LOL!
2007-03-13 14:36:12 · update #1
Listennnn... to ya boy. The guy is feeling you should ask him out but not out. Like ask to a place but not as a date. What ever place you want be in control girl. I mean he gave you a lot of signals from I can tell. I mean I don't know any girl I just like I would let hold my car and give gas money to. He is into so go for it.
2007-03-13 14:40:59 · answer #1 · answered by DuvalKing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirtatiously say, "Whats up with us? I think you're really cute and you never asked me out yet. So what do you want to do, dinner or a movie?" worked for me when I was in pretty much the same sitch as you. TAKE A RISK!
2007-03-13 14:34:30 · answer #2 · answered by verleybe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you would be able to desire to recover from the phobia of rejection. All adult men get rejected by way of the greater youthful women each so often. no longer all and sundry of them you ask out will settle for you. Even the main good-looking adult men, the richest adult men and the Hollywood A-listers get rejected by way of girls human beings. a minimum of you may have that for the time of effortless with them. in case you enable the phobia of rejection scare you from asking this youthful woman out, then you certainly will by no skill get her or any youthful different youthful woman for that rely. Wayne Gretzky as quickly as stated which you omit one hundred% of the photos you do no longer take. to boot in case you do no longer ask her out, another guy will. you would be able to desire to look at it this type. she will in basic terms say sure or no. you have a 50% risk that she would be able to luckily bypass out with you. of direction there's a 50% risk she would be able to no longer bypass out with you. If she would be able to no longer bypass out with you, then that's her loss and not yours. If she would not opt for something to do with a good guy like your self, then you certainly recognize there are different young women in this international who may well be venerated to bypass out with you. you would be able to desire to do 2 issues while you're rejected: Act like it is not a large deal and don't take it in my view. regardless of each thing, there could desire to be different motives why she rejected you and it has no longer something to do along with your visual charm. She could desire to be taken for all you recognize.
2016-10-02 02:05:29 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are never going to know unless you open up your mouth and ask him, so you should do just that. Good Luck.
2007-03-13 14:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to gain some confidence. Don't care what happens, just take a risk.
2007-03-13 14:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask a co-worker to ask him if he likes you. Then maybe that co-worker could tell him that you like him, and that he sould tell you.
2007-03-13 14:30:29 · answer #6 · answered by --- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing where do I get your new haircut? He let you drive his car..and you don't know if he likes you or not..what if he doesn't?
2007-03-13 14:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out, life is too short for nonesense such as fear of rejection
2007-03-13 14:32:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋